Problematic Neighbour

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Hey guys,

I will try and avoid a wall of text but here it goes

I live in a house separated into 2 flats I'm on the first floor the other tenant lives on ground floor, i had a major problem last week in terms of a major flood from my toilet caused by the ballvalve sheared off causing mains pressured water to flood the bathroom, naturally the water can only go to one place and that is downstairs, i managed to cut the water off and call my landlords plumber out to fix the problem was done in a few hours.

Here is where it gets awkward the woman downstairs is deaf making communication problematic i went down to her flat to check out the damage apart from water on the kitchen floor and mains tripping no major damage i explained to her that the problem has been fixed she just needs to wait for it to dry in a few hours and toggle the switch for power to those appliances again and i even offered to help clean but she declined this, so i went back up and thought nothing of it.

I obviously emailed the landlord and explained he said he will cover all costs and just needs to wait til the water dries to fully determine the damage and he advises he will cover all damage costs to downstairs, i was largely unaffected.

Next morning at 6am i had her buzz my frontdoor for aproximatly 15 mins this naturally made me really ****ed off and i refused to answer the door she had shoved a note under the door saying ''your water has made my roof brown you must by me white paint'' i put a note under her door after i got in from work and i explained my landlord will contact her landlord that owns the bottom half and is responsible for her as a tenant and all damage and costs will be covered by my landlord.

few days later i've just received another note under my door saying ‘’Hello, I have complained because my hot bath or shower is not working since the water from your toilet broke, so you have to be responsible’’

I was quite shocked about the manner of the letter but i am unsure what i can do as i have no plumbing knowledge at all and i cant exactly afford to cover costs off my own back for someone to fix whatever is wrong, and not only that my landlord has said he will cover all costs anyway.

I am trying to be understanding about her situation but she is making it extremely difficult i have no idea if her landlord has contact her yet or anything,

What would you guys do in my shoes?
 
She's probably not had much interaction and involvement with these kinds of things, so you should try and be as forgiving as you can.

I'd write her a nice, clear, friendly letter.

Dear Neighbour,

I'm very sorry for what has happened, and I've done all I can to stop it getting worse. However it's my landlord that is responsible for fixing things, and he has assured me he will put things right. You do need to understand that I just live here, I am not responsible for things in the flat that go wrong - it's my landlord.

I can't think of any reason why the water leak would have had an effect on your own water supply, but I've contacted my landlord to let him know. The two things are probably unrelated.

As far as the paint is concerned, I would imagine my landlord will arrange for it to be painted, rather than just give you a tin of paint, but I'll let you know as soon as I hear of anything.

Yours sincerely,

John Calgar the 177th
 
What would you guys do in my shoes?

I'd apologise for the inconvenience the leak has caused but also explain it wasn't my fault and it is the responsibility of my landlord to fix which he is in the process of doing. If she carried on after that I'd just ignore her.
 
ask the landlord to visit her to sort it out, i would try and help but its not really up to you

Hi thanks for the reply, my landlord is in dubai and myself and the landlord have emailed the landlord that owns downstairs but have had no response as i have no involvment ive got no ontact number for him only his email.

I feel terribly guilty but i feel i have done all i can
 
She's probably not had much interaction and involvement with these kinds of things, so you should try and be as forgiving as you can.

I'd write her a nice, clear, friendly letter.

Dear Neighbour,

I'm very sorry for what has happened, and I've done all I can to stop it getting worse. However it's my landlord that is responsible for fixing things, and he has assured me he will put things right. You do need to understand that I just live here, I am not responsible for things in the flat that go wrong - it's my landlord.

I can't think of any reason why the water leak would have had an effect on your own water supply, but I've contacted my landlord to let him know. The two things are probably unrelated.



As far as the paint is concerned, I would imagine my landlord will arrange for it to be painted, rather than just give you a tin of paint, but I'll let you know as soon as I hear of anything.

Yours sincerely,

John Calgar the 177th

Hi thanks made me chuckle i have already gave her a well detailed apology and explanation of what happened i think she just feels that because it came from my flat i am responsible
 
Hi thanks made me chuckle i have already gave her a well detailed apology and explanation of what happened i think she just feels that because it came from my flat i am responsible

The letter was serious bar your name... I'd send her a similar note every time, she'll soon get fed up. Aside from that I'd also be wanting to be as compassionate towards her as I could, regardless of how much of a nutjob she's being about it.

Edit : It's possible she's being coached by someone else, and the someone else doesn't really understand all of it. That's frequently the case in these types of things. If you put it in writing and she does relay it to whoever is egging her on then you might find they get a more accurate picture of things.
 
The letter was serious bar your name... I'd send her a similar note every time, she'll soon get fed up. Aside from that I'd also be wanting to be as compassionate towards her as I could, regardless of how much of a nutjob she's being about it.

Hi just to clarify it was the name part i did find amusing

I think your right ill write her another note as friendly as possible thanks for the help on this halk :)
 
Well war of the neighbours continues..

I have since contacted the landlord and he has said to ask her for dates for which she is available for his plumber, simple enough i thought but oh no, she has since got a plumber out off of her own back and I've received a lovely letter that says the below..

Just to clarify i had given her a note asking for dates of when she is available, and the below is the response i get.




Considering how reasonable i have tried to be i think its safe to say that i should just ignore her unless she provides a notes with a few dates? i have tried to help as much as i can, i am absolutely livid what is she failing to understand?? i wrote it all down for her :mad::mad::mad:
 
Looks like english might be a second language, hence the confusion.

She's Deaf which adds to more confusion however, i typed out and printed off each note for her fully explaining. its not my fault/problem she is not understanding.

She's arrogant about living their anyway due to her living rent free and her ex is the landlord that owns the ground floor flat... so she does try to throw her weight around.
 
ok deaf missed that...

pics ??

go and shout at her see what her lip reading is like???

also tell her to get a 2nd quote on her plumbing, that's very steep i bet he is a con merchant.
 
ok deaf missed that...

pics ??

go and shout at her see what her lip reading is like???

also tell her to get a 2nd quote on her plumbing, that's very steep i bet he is a con merchant.

Yeah he probably is, however nor i or her would have to pay if she had actually just given me a date of when she is in and available. for me to relay to my landlords plumber to take care of all fees and workmanship :p

and no pics unless i go knock on her door and snap shot.. she isnt much to look at anyway 3/10 at most
 
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