Finally got round to taking some decent measurements!!!
the 50Hz is normal, so that can be ignored.
the 125Hz is a bit odd, I can only imagine that even with the power to the PC off, there is some sort of power going through. the mobo certainly has power, so maybe some form of electrical noise. not really bothered by that though.
the problem is the damn mid and high frequencies above 125HZ!!!!!
my fans are all fixed except in the PSU which is obviously temp controlled.
even at idle, the noise from the PSU is quite clearly the major noise source, subjectively. at load, there is no question about the noise from the PSU, something these measurements demonstrate (remembering that all other fans are fixed speed and very quiet)
for this test, I have air ducted in from outside my case directly into the PSU intake fan. the air going in is cold to the tough when putting my hand in the intake duct. the air coming out of the PSU is barely warm to touch. as a guide, the air coming out at load feels less warm than my media server!!! so I can only conclude that the PSU isnt getting pushed that hard.
this makes sense as the PC only draws about 800W from the wall with both GFX cards and CPU loaded up to 100% (using Kombuster multi-gpu extreme burn mode and prime95 multithreaded).
BeQuiet quote 20dB to 30dB at idle/load respectively.
I have sent them an email (again!) with the results of this testing, and have heard nothing.
I shall be ringing OcUK up about this, as hopefully they will get more luck with sorting the problem out (and hopefully a working replacement) than I have had to date....