It's not just CP2077, although that's an extreme example, but other RT games show mediocre non-RT reflections, it makes the screenshots look better for RT but it seems a flawed comparison.
Well, if nvidia says so it must be true

the benchmarks don't show any generational improvement beyond just 'moar cores'.
I've got 1440p/165Hz screen, but not too fussed about it, I want 60fps min, not average, though ideally. You pick DLSS by preference? again only speaking through review videos and screenshots but it seems clearly noticeable even in video at 4k 'Quality' (1440p I believe?) so picking it as a preference seems weird?
As for 6800XT vs 3080, as a general rule, at 1440p, the 6800XT seems to have the edge. As mentioned I'm not sold on RT, and certainly not with the performance hit seen currently, and I don't want to use the 'crutch' of DLSS after spending a considerable chunk of money on a GPU. The 6800XT (by MSRP) is cheaper than the 3080, not that either MSRP really matters right now...