Poll: Relationship cheating question..

In these scanarios...

  • I could forgive A, but not B.

    Votes: 43 12.1%

  • I could forgive either A or B. Everyone makes mistakes.

    Votes: 8 2.2%

  • I couldn't forgive either A or B. Once a cheat always a cheat.

    Votes: 132 37.1%

  • I don't agree with 'once a cheat always a cheat' but I couldn't forgive either A or B.

    Votes: 121 34.0%

  • Pancake.

    Votes: 52 14.6%
  • Total voters
    356
It would take a while but i would probably forgive A (depending on how long we have been together, 2-3 years i probably would not forgive)

But B is a lot worse for me, no chance, sack of both partner and mate, and never speak to them again.
 
3.

The thought of her doing that would be enough for me to walk out, regardless if she regretted it or not, it happened once therefore it may happen again.
 
IwantanewPC said:
two scenarios for you. In both you've been with a girl 2-3 years, you are madly in love with her and you truly believe her to be the 'one'. however one of the following happens to you..

A) on a night out she gets very drunk and ends up sleeping with some random guy she meets on the night. she confesses straight away the next day and is very remorseful.

B) she goes behind your back with one of your best friends and ends up having a thing with your friend, completely shattering you. after several months she comes back to you and is very sorry for all she has done and has realised she wants to be with you.

the question i am asking is would you take her back under any of these circumstances? a bunch of us mates were having these discussion the other night over some drinks. the majority of us would end it after either scenario, a couple said they could forgive A) and, unbelievably one guy said he could forgive either..

can we get a poll up with the following options..

1. I could forgive A, but not B.
2. I could forgive either A or B. Everyone makes mistakes.
3. I couldn't forgive either A or B. Once a cheat always a cheat.
4. I don't agree with 'once a cheat always a cheat' but I couldn't forgive either A or B.

thanks.
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Have any of your mates decided to test whether that guy would actually forgive his gf? If/When he has a gf that is your challenge!!
 
Sorry to hear your missus is cheating on you... sorry I mean your friends missus... oh wait its all fake and your plugging for fake advice for later life.... Im with ya now haha

3 OR 4 its a hard one really as I personally think both can be true statements but people can also change. It would take a lot for a girl to show she had changed for me to pick 4 so for the 99% rule Ill stick with 3.
 
I could forgive A, but not B.

B is too long, and no matter how much she may feel she wants you back if she is presented with the same situation again in the future she is more than likely to cheat on you again.

Of course, A isn't a walk in the park and everything is ok. It would take time.
 
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