I think i may be cursed in relationships. 
I advertised for a lodger – i got one. Fit looking female twentysomething.
Now i wasn’t at home for the first month because i was away doing a course. She moved in and cleaned the place up big time...even going so far as to put in new bathroom tiles in the bathroom.
I was a tad uncomfortable with this but said nothing.
When i moved back in, we get on fine albeit she is always buying me food stuffs and she brings some relatives over...all normal except that she had said that her cousin referred to me as the boyfriend???!
Now i will admit i find her attractive. I should add at this point –she is a devout Christian. Believes very strongly in no sex before marriage etc. (she didn’t tell me this until we were very hot n heavy btw) (she doesn’t mind doing other stuff though as long as its not actual intercourse)
But anyway we had something of a connection i thought and i kissed her. Before you can say howdy doody. ....we are kissing, cuddlying etc. Now for me this is just some fun as i have no interest in a serious relationship at the moment. (i said to her before all this that i’m leaving the country)
Problem is she thinks we are 100% serious. She is constantly trying to get me to come to church, asking me why i don’t believe in God etc. I have told her i am agnostic but this doesn’t satisfy her and she keeps bringing the subject up (to the extent that it is annoying me).
Now if she didn’t constantly push the religion onto me and didn’t have the “no sex before marriage” rule then i would be happy to go out with her as a couple.
I am obviously going to have to tell her my feelings which could possibly mean the end of any relationship. It will upset her big time...where was my first mistake you reckon? Where did i go wrong?
Ohh yeah all this has happened in the space of 1 ½ - 2 weeks. At one point as well she kinda said she loved me...when i said i liked her she pushes for details and was saying when do i think i would reach the love stage or something.....
This is a nightmare basically... ideas?
I advertised for a lodger – i got one. Fit looking female twentysomething.
Now i wasn’t at home for the first month because i was away doing a course. She moved in and cleaned the place up big time...even going so far as to put in new bathroom tiles in the bathroom.
I was a tad uncomfortable with this but said nothing.
When i moved back in, we get on fine albeit she is always buying me food stuffs and she brings some relatives over...all normal except that she had said that her cousin referred to me as the boyfriend???!
Now i will admit i find her attractive. I should add at this point –she is a devout Christian. Believes very strongly in no sex before marriage etc. (she didn’t tell me this until we were very hot n heavy btw) (she doesn’t mind doing other stuff though as long as its not actual intercourse)
But anyway we had something of a connection i thought and i kissed her. Before you can say howdy doody. ....we are kissing, cuddlying etc. Now for me this is just some fun as i have no interest in a serious relationship at the moment. (i said to her before all this that i’m leaving the country)
Problem is she thinks we are 100% serious. She is constantly trying to get me to come to church, asking me why i don’t believe in God etc. I have told her i am agnostic but this doesn’t satisfy her and she keeps bringing the subject up (to the extent that it is annoying me).
Now if she didn’t constantly push the religion onto me and didn’t have the “no sex before marriage” rule then i would be happy to go out with her as a couple.
I am obviously going to have to tell her my feelings which could possibly mean the end of any relationship. It will upset her big time...where was my first mistake you reckon? Where did i go wrong?
Ohh yeah all this has happened in the space of 1 ½ - 2 weeks. At one point as well she kinda said she loved me...when i said i liked her she pushes for details and was saying when do i think i would reach the love stage or something.....
This is a nightmare basically... ideas?
