Relationship disaster - help

Scubascorpion said:
Fit lodger moves in... Nice move.
Re done the tiling.. Cool
Got close to her.. cool
Coped off.. nice work
Devout Christian.. no problem if she doesn't.... Oh she does. Shame
Goes on about joining her religion as if you are the spawn of Satan if you do not.. UNCOOL
She tells you she loves you.. Awwwwww cute, she's fallen for you, but the Christian thing is souring the relationship

ALL THIS IN THE SPACE OF 2 WEEKS
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She was living in my flat for a month though. i moved back in on sunday 11th December. Prior to that had barely talked to her that much.

i have a feeling she will want to move out of the flat straight away after the conversation tonight....she is probably right now having happy thoughts of spending some of christmas with her new boyfriend......all to be destroyed very soon...not my finest hour...:(
 
Sham marriage, get the goods and say goodbye (unless of course she has skills in that department). <--The only answer.
 
insist that every visit you make to church is followed by dirty bum sex followed by some a2m :)


win win situation then
 
If she's religious she's probably not had many (if any) boyfriends before, won't know that she's being pushy etc.?

Apart from the religion bit she sounds absolutely dreamy tbh, however, the no sex thing and the whole 'Jesus is real' thing is a bit of an issue.
 
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Tbh...............this could either end very well or very badly.

If she is a proper-pro Christian and you have sex (assuming she is a virgin atm) you are likely to mess her up as she will be plagued by guilt and torn between you and her faith. It’s a loose / loose from here-on in if you do that.

If she chooses you over her faith, she will have lost a massive part of her life and she may not end up the same person, especially if she can’t reconcile everything.

She decides her faith takes precedent and she will basically shun you.

Take it slow, don’t feel pressured into going to church. Also if you find she is the one for you and vice versa, you could end up getting married in 6 months and it would be worth waiting for. Ultimately though, if you do stay together you need to respect her faith and support her in it, regardless of what you believe.
 
cm1179 said:
works rather well
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Hehe. Yeah in hindsight my response was rather retarded but tbh it was the best I could manage for "never look a bj in the mouth". After much thought I still haven't quite got my head around what that statement actually means.
 
Stewy said:
If she's religious she's probably not had many (if any) boyfriends before, won't know that she's being pushy etc.?
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I've read some nonsense on these forums today but I think this tops it. What an astounding assumption. So you are really saying that due to her being religious she is less likely to have had past relationships? Amazing.

Edit: what type of church does she go to?
 
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