Relationship disaster - help

dante6491 said:
There is only one question you need to ask yourself: Does she make you feel happy? If yes then you can work through the other issues.
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How do you work through "i am emigrating in 4 months"


Your answer to that would be dont do it, compromise what you want for what she wants (whoops sorry i mean the relationship).

The religion thing, meh, it's a big deal for her, make some effort. You don't have to believe, but supporting her beliefs wouldn't be too much to ask.
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Sorry but i dont pray, go to church etc so her constantly trying to get me to do that is highly disrespectful of who i am. I respect her beliefs, i dont try to change her, shame she didn't feel the same way.



Finally with regards to sex I think you are being a bit unreasonable. She obviously wants to take time. The way you worded your post back a few pages, it sounded like you were demanding sex.
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Sorry Dante you have the wrong end of the stick entirely. No i wasnt demanding sex. If she said she wanted to wait till the relationship had developed ie more stronger/stable etc then i'd be happy with that. Her line was pretty much a blanket "no sex before marriage" and its non-negotiable.
Considering i dont really believe in marriage....you dont think this could be a problem?

Further, you think i'm rushing her with regard to sex? Well i wasn't the one who wanted a fully committed relationship after 5 days...who loves me etc.

You have to let relationships grow (that takes time) and whether they grow or not isnt all down to one side just wanting it enough.

I appreciate your opinion because it is a bit similar to what she said.
 
I couldn't do it to be honest - it's going to get in the way. Unless she can turn water into wine or anything else like that it's probably a no go.
 
Surfer said:
Considering i dont really believe in marriage
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I hate to break it to you, but marriage really does exist. Whether it works or not is another thing...

Just convince her it is ok to bang in her back door, then evict and get a restraining order. Simples.
 
i'd stay well clear if shes so religious sex is "dirty" even if you were married it would be an every other month thing anyway..... bet she would be stiff as a board aswell

oh and everything other than missionary is probably the devils work
 
Well although however crazy she may be it seems to me that this issue is not entirely one sided. The OP has a hotish woman move in as a lodger and within a few days of meeting her he is getting a bit but not the full monty as she full on christian etc but he is sleeping in her bed? I mean come on.. And you didnt think this was going to end badly...???
 
As it's Christmas and I'm a nice chap (and local to you), I'll do you a favour...

I'll pop past, tell her straight and take the problem off your hands. Deal?

Apparently our bathroom 'needs' re-tiling and I'm sure as hell not doing it myself...
 
naefeart said:
As it's Christmas and I'm a nice chap (and local to you), I'll do you a favour...

I'll pop past, tell her straight and take the problem off your hands. Deal?

Apparently our bathroom 'needs' re-tiling and I'm sure as hell not doing it myself...
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Hahaha well after reading this bat **** crazy thread this did make me chuckle.

OP, your leaving in 4 months, there is no middle ground compromise here, she is after a relationship and you are not.
No point in taking this any further at all otherwise she's going to be even ore damaged. (This in turn could lead to you having your back doors smashed in with a giant crucifix and having the word of god rammed right where the sun don't shine!)
 
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