Every thread on this forum about a relationship seems to be about having broken up or some god awful reason, even the advice and hugs thread has descended into a how to repair a broken relationship circle jerk, and any advice has been lost in the depths of crying man babies. 
Forgive me for thinking that maybe it would be an idea to share tips and tricks on how to actually make things work, cause I'm sure it probably not always the lasses fault and that maybe just maybe, some of us have a good idea here and there and we could pool them together. I know there are lots of married men on here, and I'm sure they didn't manage that by accident. Think of it as a cheat sheet to ward of the arguments from the crazies. Hey even the very few women on the board could give us tip or two.
I for one have had several LTR and I still could do with a little advice, I may even have a few things to contribute.
Might be an idea not to contribute after hours advice, and hopefully, I say hopefully although we men are emotionally stunted, we might be able to express Don Juan tips without trolls telling us we are gay (ironically)
However if you think it's a stupid idea then 3 - 2 - 1 to GAY!!!!!
Obviously this could backfire too if the advice is bad, so, I add the disclaimer that I might be talking smack and you should not listen to me or anyone else for that matter, and since I'm not married what do I know.
So I shall start the embarrassment................
Women like you to be spontaneous, now to most men this sounds like a horrendous amount of work, thinking about what to do and when to surprise them etc. My best way to keep things spontaneous every now and again isn't to constantly think about new ways and ideas to do that, it's just never tell them what your planning to do. Don't discuss your ideas to take them to a concert or dinner or film or whatever you were planning to buy them, just do it. You were going to anyway but this way your preplanned and prediscussed options become mysteriously unplanned. Winner!
Stay in shape, no one likes a fatty so why should she. Plus women desire a man much much more that are desirable to other women, looking good is a sure fire way to achieve her attention.
Dress well, it's not hard, just find a movie star or sportsman who looks good and copy it if need be.


Forgive me for thinking that maybe it would be an idea to share tips and tricks on how to actually make things work, cause I'm sure it probably not always the lasses fault and that maybe just maybe, some of us have a good idea here and there and we could pool them together. I know there are lots of married men on here, and I'm sure they didn't manage that by accident. Think of it as a cheat sheet to ward of the arguments from the crazies. Hey even the very few women on the board could give us tip or two.
I for one have had several LTR and I still could do with a little advice, I may even have a few things to contribute.
Might be an idea not to contribute after hours advice, and hopefully, I say hopefully although we men are emotionally stunted, we might be able to express Don Juan tips without trolls telling us we are gay (ironically)
However if you think it's a stupid idea then 3 - 2 - 1 to GAY!!!!!
Obviously this could backfire too if the advice is bad, so, I add the disclaimer that I might be talking smack and you should not listen to me or anyone else for that matter, and since I'm not married what do I know.

So I shall start the embarrassment................
Women like you to be spontaneous, now to most men this sounds like a horrendous amount of work, thinking about what to do and when to surprise them etc. My best way to keep things spontaneous every now and again isn't to constantly think about new ways and ideas to do that, it's just never tell them what your planning to do. Don't discuss your ideas to take them to a concert or dinner or film or whatever you were planning to buy them, just do it. You were going to anyway but this way your preplanned and prediscussed options become mysteriously unplanned. Winner!
Stay in shape, no one likes a fatty so why should she. Plus women desire a man much much more that are desirable to other women, looking good is a sure fire way to achieve her attention.
Dress well, it's not hard, just find a movie star or sportsman who looks good and copy it if need be.

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