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I need a new saddle, the standard Boardman item is rubbish (i knew this already from reading various forums! Now what to upgrade to....hmm).
Have a read about brooks leather saddles, not for everyone mind.
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I need a new saddle, the standard Boardman item is rubbish (i knew this already from reading various forums! Now what to upgrade to....hmm).
Think i'm going to give a Charge Spoon a whirl, about £20 so worth a shot and gets good reviews.

I can recommend the Campagnolo bib shorts. They have a few on sale at wiggle.
http://www.wiggle.co.uk/mens/campagnolo/lycra-cycling-shorts/
Thats the problem, too much choice !
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these look like a good shout
"dhb Aeron Pro Cycling Bib Short"
I have a pair of those - they are decent for reasonably mild weather but i'm finding them a bit chilly on some of the colder days we're now having. Also, the pad is ok, but not amazing if you're doing long distances (50 miles + ). I got them in the sale when they were about half the current price tho.
http://www.wiggle.co.uk/dhb-aeron-pro-cycling-bib-short/
I also have a pair of the dhb Pace Roubaix Padded Bib Shorts and they are better suited to the colder weather and the pad is much more comfy. I see they have these back in stock on Wiggle and with a hefty discount as well:
http://www.wiggle.co.uk/dhb-pace-roubaix-padded-bib-shorts/
I'm tempted to pick up another pair myself tbh.
We had a bit of a close encounter with a horse on our ride earlier. We were stopped by the side of the road having a snack and this lady is riding a horse past in the opposite direction. The horse is trying to get across to us, and she's having to keep it in check. She tells us that the horse is obsessed with bananas, and has got it into his head that all cyclists have bananas, so any time he sees a cyclist he goes for them.
In other, non-equine, news, the new version of Strava does indeed have the better battery life that the release notes promised. It used to be it would die when I hit 32 miles. I did 37 today and finished with 41% battery. Bargain.
Oh yeah, and someone said they've heard tell of Queen Victoria training round about where we go out. Apparently she lives somewhere near us and has been spotted. Will have to keep my eyes open!

Thanks for the feedback
those Roubaix shorts are only £25, so i might get them to use in Winter, and in the thick of summer i might get some Cappolingo ones
damn, the Roubaix ones dont have a large