What I'd do:
LA - 2 Days
LA is 2 days, absolute max. Get it out of the way as soon as you land there. Stay in West Hollywood, if you can afford it, at The London.
See the Hollywood sign, walk of fame (for the gf), drive Mullholland and enjoy some of the cool bars out there in W. Hollywood. Sky Bar @ Mondrian is awesome for sunset and cocktails!
Laguna & San Diego - 4 Days
Forget driving to the Canyon, instead head south and stop in Laguna beach for a night. It's a lovely place, enjoy the food, drink and beach area.
Then take a short drive to San Diego and spend 3 days there. Stay in the Gaslamp district, we very much enjoy the Marriott there and their rooftop bar. Started chatted to some young guys there and against our better judgement went with them in their truck to some party area off the toursit track and had an amazing night. No idea where we where
Vegas & Grand Canyon - 4 days
After SD drive direct to Vegas. It's a long way and you'll laugh when the SAT NAV says 'In 210 miles, turn right'
It's a long way, but probably the simplest drive in the world along the intersate. Stop at Calico Ghost Town for a wonder and to stretch your legs.
Spend 4 days in Vegas, with one of those as the trip to the Grand Canyon (see below). Try and stay fairly central on the strip as walking around will take longer than you think and will sap your energy.
Must things to do:
- At sunset go to Mix Bar @ The Hotel (next to Mandalay Bay). Get there when it opens to grab a seat outside (or book the day before) and watch the stunning sunset over the strip as it lights up. This is a must do!!!!
- Pop up the Stratosphere and have a drink in their bar. At sunset then head to the roof and watch the sun go down. Maybe go on one of the extreme rides or jump off the tower on the absailing jump thingy.
- Dabble at a bit of gambling, Planet Hollywood is a great casino, less stuffy than the others and more for a young crowd. They were also helpful to us newcomers and the waitresses came around to take your drinks orders regularly. Drinks are free but you pay tips, so I recommend a cheeky $5 for each drink in the first round then $1-2 after that.
Grand Canyon note. Listen to Fox and fly from N Vegas to the South Rim Airport. Beware that you CANNOT take a helicopter from Vegas to the Canyon, that's the crappy West Rim tourist trap. You take a fixed wing over the Hoover Dam to S. Rim airport, then can take a Helicopter ride OVER the Canyon, then grab the laid on minibus to the view points on the S Rim.
Death Valley & Yosemite - 3 days
Start your long drive West to Death valley, heading through Pahrump. Ensure you fill up with fuel here and brim the tank. Also make sure you have plenty of water in the car, for the car and more importantly yourselves should the worst happen and you break down! Ensure you take the 178 leading onto Badwater Road, it's a stunning drive, then stop at Badwater basin for your shots on the salt flats.
Eventually take the 190 NW up through Bishop and stop here for the night, or if you fancy make more progress then stop over at Mono Lake. Mono Lake is more effort to reach on an already very very long day (both of you will need to drive), but it's worth it for the stunning views over the weiry lake in the morning.
You could always stop in DV overnight to break up the trip then drive straight to Yosemite NP and stay there. Otherwise, if staying at Mono lake, then drive up through Tioga Pass for scenery that will be hard to beat, ever! Relax and take it slow, stopping off to take in the awe and grab lots of shots! Stay here for a night and explore, I didn't as we were short on holiday trip time.
SAN FRAN - 3 days
If you leave Yosemite in the morning then you'll be in San Fran ready for lunch. I highly recommend staying in the Marina District as you're out of the Union Square area, can walk to see the Golden Gate Bridge and also access Fishermans Wharf. Bars and restaurants in this area are also excellent and off the tourist track with a great local feel!
Book your Alcatraz trip in advance, spend a day there, drive over Golden Gate bridge and just explore San Fran. 3 days here will be plenty.
Monteray & Pacific Coast Highway (PCH) - 2 days
Drive from San Fran to Monteray for lunch, then explore the PCH in all it's glory. It really is an amazing drive and you'll constantly be stopping to admire the splendor. It's a fairly long day, but stop for the night in San Luis Obispo @ the Madonna Inn
Next day drive to Santa Barbara and spend 2 nights here. Enjoy this stunning place, great for wondering around down the beach, eating and drinking well!! On the 2nd day, take a drive north up the 154, enjoy the scenery and have lunch at Cold Springs Tavern before heading back to SB.
Santa Monica - 1.5 days
Leave SB after lunch and drive the 1.5hrs to Santa Monica. I recommend staying at the Georgian, it's got the perfect location and is a nice place to stay on your final 2 nights!
Relax around Santa Monica, see the famous pier and also wonder down to Venice beach to take in the crazyness and have some nice drinks and food. Bar Pintxo was a cracking place to eat, but ensure you sit at the bar where they prep the food and can chat with the chef. The Spanish Tapas we had was sensational and the GF thought it better than a lot of the food she ate in Spain when there on part of her year abroad!
Santa Monica is the best place for your final night as it isn't the LA dump and is also only 20mins from the airport car rental places!