Originally posted by Deadly Ferret
If you happened to be short and I for some reason called you an old midget, and you felt insulted by it, going by your principle above you would have the right to dictate that I can't use the word anymore? That's an outrage...you old midget.
In essence, yes that is correct, unless you think that going arond deliberately insulting people is an acceptable pastime You would have course be free to use the "old midget" phrase when out of earshot of people who had been specifically offended by it in the past (i.e. me in this case).
The point I was trying to make is that because of the way they have been used in the past, these "offensive terms" (and I'm not talking about midgets now ) may become synonymous with feelings of insult, anger etc to some people. Generally speaking, if somebody preceeds a racial group with the F-word it is likely to cause upset to some people. It's unneccesary, you (anyone) could quite as easily make your point without using such inflammatory language.