Some might say that making comments about someone’s physical appearance that may be a result of their disability is the wrong side of acceptable and is de facto bullying.
Bullying is to their face isn't it? This is more like gossiping imo. Like a bunch of old dears at the local tea room discussing the new Bingo host with a cleft pallet, he's such a dish from the neck down. Proper swooning until I look at his face.