Saberu's guide to Pulling on the dancefloor

I personally am not a "natural" and never saw the point in pulling in clubs or on the dancefloor. I go out and enjoy myself with mates without a hassle or pressure on myself to pull - besides, if I'm looking for LTR, I'm much happier knowing people through daily life than a girl from a club - even if she's drop dead gorgeous*

*exceptions made if she turns around asking me instead, but so far, once in 5 years since I came over here?
 
Dr Jones said:
I'm much happier knowing people through daily life than a girl from a club - even if she's drop dead gorgeous*
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All depends on your social dynamic, meeting girls through friends is probably a much safer option but for a lot of people this simply isn't an option, my uni campus being a perfect example. Theres simply not enough around the campus for it to become a viable method of meeting a lot of them using the networking approach :p

Unless you meant approaching and socialising with strangers during the day.
 
Saberu said:
A5H care to explain why this thread is self indulgent :confused:
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It's like you're saying 'look at me i can pull, don't you wish you were as cool and awesome as me.'

Or maybe I just have a complex.

Either way I think it's bull****. I met my current girlfriend by sitting there with some mates having a beer in a club.
You don't need to do any crazy stuff :confused:
 
A5H said:
Either way I think it's bull****. I met my current girlfriend by sitting there with some mates having a beer in a club.
You don't need to do any crazy stuff :confused:
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You don't have to pull by dancing theres LOADS of ways you can get girls. Approaching during the day for a chat aswell as approaching in pubs/clubs to chat. And ofcourse social networking through your friends if thats a good option for you.

I'm just talking about dancing here I never implied there weren't other ways, you call it crazy stuff..do you realise pretty much everyone uses similar approaches to the ones I laid out? Just for most people it's natural ability.

I think you've taken this thread the wrong way, I wasn't boasting about my pulling heck if anything I was admitting my skill was quite low considering I needed to make this guide! I was simply sharing it with the OcUK community in the hope that others can benefit from it.
 
Saberu said:
All depends on your social dynamic, meeting girls through friends is probably a much safer option but for a lot of people this simply isn't an option, my uni campus being a perfect example. Theres simply not enough around the campus for it to become a viable method of meeting a lot of them using the networking approach :p

Unless you meant approaching and socialising with strangers during the day.
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Approaching strangers depends on chances - not far off from dancing on the dancefloor, with less kino more ice breaking.

But I help run my uni club - we do a lot of tournaments, these give me a lot of opportunities to meet new people and make new connections.

*Note to self, Stamford uni have low girl to boy ratio, don't go there for any Taekwondo Tournament if any. :D
 
When at work (night club manager) i walk around usually in a long coat and have an ear piece in my ear so i look like door staff. I like to stand by the fire exit when i've got five minutes to have a breather, while i was there i noticed this girl who smiled at me while she was dancing when she turned her back to me i walked up to her and demmanded she came with me, grabbed her hand etc, she thought i was going to throw her out so starting kicking up a fuss. Took her the other side of the room and signalled her to be quiet, i then told her how stunning she was and ended up with her for the rest of the night :D I always like to show the staff my idea of customer relations :D
 
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