Soldato
Having Asian friends doesn't stop a person from being racist.Well she isn't racist if that's how you let on as she has Asian friends she just doesn't like spicy food she would have just said I'm not eating that I hate curry but like I said it's to easy to be branded a racist let's face it if I flew a union jack where I live at the moment with it being 70% asian populated someone is going to get offended
Beside the point, I simply don't believe you that your child was branded a racist by the school for disliking curry. You are either intentionally leaving things out or don't know the whole story. Judging by the general rhetoric of the rest of your comments (typical daily mail reader/white van man logic) then I'd assume both.
I may of course be wrong, but judging from the above this seems the most likely scenario.