Second Life Ruined my Marriage!!..

Jez said:
I had sex with my GTA girlfriend when GTA4 was all the rage recently. Its a damn computer game :/
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Because of the wonders of the internet(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet), people can now interact with other real people online.

The point I'm trying to make is GTA4 is not interaction with real people, it's AI. Having sex with another real person, virtual or otherwise is a whole other thing. That's like comparing your girlfriend using her battery powered toy to her inviting Bob from down the pub to come over for a quicky.
 
I still don't see it, its a computer and the guy is miles away. And they were split up anyway sleeping in separate rooms.

In any event she sounds like a nutcase for spending so much time on it.
 
Jez said:
And they were split up anyway sleeping in separate rooms.
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This is true, and I'm not disputing that

However, all the people saying things like this

Jez said:
I still don't see it, its a computer and the guy is miles away.
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and that it doesn't mean anything, and it's stupid, it's simply not true. People can and do build relationships online and in virtual worlds. The feelings may be slightly misplaced, and due to the nature of the environment, it's very easy to deceive and be deceived, but you can't deny that the feelings are still there.

Do you really think she would be spending 12+ hours a day chatting and fornicating with a guy in a virtual world if it was "just a bit of a laugh" and nothing more?
 
@ OP, all joking aside - I feel your pain. It's not so much what she's doing, more the fact that she's doing it in your face.

Stuff the 2-year separation nonsense, you now have your own grounds for divorce - Unreasonable Behaviour.

Divorce Law said:
Behaviour
If the respondent has behaved in such a way that the petition cannot reasonably be expected to live the respondent, this may be used as one of the facts.

The test is twofold. The first test is unreasonable behaviour. This is an objective test. The court will look at the behaviour itself and judge whether it is unreasonable.

The sort of conduct that is unreasonable will depend on the circumstances. This does not necessarily include physical violence. Verbal abuse, threats, insults, nagging, demanding, or refusing sexual intercourse unreasonably, intimate relationships with others, cruelty and failure to provide money etc. can amount to unreasonable behaviour. There is no need to prove that the petitioner intended to inflict misery on the petitioner.

The second test is whether the petitioner can reasonably be expected to live with the respondent. This is an objective test. The court will look at the history of the marriage as well as to the personalities of the spouses. A type of behaviour may be reasonable within one marriage but not within another marriage.

If the parties to a marriage have lived together for a period of six months or more from the last incident mentioned in the petition, the petitioner will have to explain to the court the reason why they have continued to live together. If there is a proper explanation, the court will grant a decree of divorce or judicial separation.
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Get out, go to your parents. I know I would.
 
Jez said:
I still don't see it, its a computer and the guy is miles away. And they were split up anyway sleeping in separate rooms.

In any event she sounds like a nutcase for spending so much time on it.
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When she was just sitting 'cuddling with him watching the ocean, they were both furiously typing/chatting to each other... the same when on the boat, even when they were snogging in the rose field!... she didn't seem to be looking at the screen much during any of it... till the incedent at 1:30am... when she typed a little... the stared at the screen for a minute or so with a 'gooey' look on her face, typed a bit more, more staring... the he got off her.. they both stood up... He dressed and teleported away, leaving her standing there naked! (what a class act!!)... thats when she shut down the program... went to her bedroom... and a buzzing sound proceded to be coming from her room!...

I went back to bed very angry, and crying a little!... :(

I'm now pushing our estate agent to try and sell quicker (not an easy thing) and I'm going to speak to my Solicitor this week!...

I'm past the angry stage... I confronted her on Friday, and told her my thoughts.. and said that When (not if) he dumps her, it could be next week.. month or in 6 months time but he will find a new bit of pixelated skirt whos easier and not so needy!!... I'm not going to be a shoulder to cry on anymore!...

I still can't get the sight (pixels or not) of some other guy having sex on a beach with my wife (she's still leagally my wife!! and I sort of still love her!!)... Ive not been able to sleep much due to this vision appearing in my mind every time I close my eyes!! :mad:

and NO THIS ISN'T A MADE UP STORY!!!... IT'S ACTUALLY HAPPENING!!.. :(
 
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Simian said:
When she was just sitting 'cuddling with him watching the ocean, they were both furiously typing/chatting to each other... the same when on the boat, even when they were snogging in the rose field!... she didn't seem to be looking at the screen much during any of it... till the incedent at 1:30am... when she typed a little... the stared at the screen for a minute or so with a 'gooey' look on her face, typed a bit more, more staring... the he got off her.. they both stood up... He dressed and teleported away, leaving her standing there naked! (what a class act!!)... thats when she shut down the program... went to her bedroom... and a buzzing sound proceded to be coming from her room!...

I went back to bed very angry, and crying a little!... :(

I'm now pushing our estate agent to try and sell quicker (not an easy thing) and I'm going to speak to my Solicitor this week!...

I'm past the angry stage... I confronted her on Friday, and told her my thoughts.. and said that When (not if) he dumps her, it could be next week.. month or in 6 months time but he will find a new bit of pixelated skirt whos easier and not so needy!!... I'm not going to be a shoulder to cry on anymore!...

I still can't get the sight (pixels or not) of some other guy having sex on a beach with my wife (she's still leagally my wife!! and I sort of still love her!!)... Ive not been able to sleep much due to this vision appearing in my mind every time I close my eyes!! :mad:

and NO THIS ISN'T A MADE UP STORY!!!... IT'S ACTUALLY HAPPENING!!.. :(
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lol, that made me laugh, you need to grow a pair and kick her out, I hope she isnt sponging off your hard earned earnings?
 
To be honest dude, she's having a fantasy. If it upsets you that you aren't involved in her fantasy, then fair enough, but thats all it is, even if she kids herself that its anything more. The fact that she has to resort to snoopy the sex toy to get her kicks after this confirms it.

Yes you still love her, but it doesn't sound she loves you any more, she might not have said it but thats what it sounds like - and she is "moving on" by indulging in fantasy. Not exactly healthy, but then, you shouldn't be caring about her any more.

To be honest mate, you are the one who needs to move on now. You need to start divorce proceedings, and get a new life. You are wasting your life on her now and she doesn't deserve it. You definately need to get out of the house, and I guess now you'll see if you've abandoned all of your friends or whether they are still there for you.

I'm sorry it has come to this, but I hope you can get through it.
 
Simian said:
When she was just sitting 'cuddling with him watching the ocean, they were both furiously typing/chatting to each other... the same when on the boat, even when they were snogging in the rose field!... she didn't seem to be looking at the screen much during any of it... till the incedent at 1:30am... when she typed a little... the stared at the screen for a minute or so with a 'gooey' look on her face, typed a bit more, more staring... the he got off her.. they both stood up... He dressed and teleported away, leaving her standing there naked! (what a class act!!)... thats when she shut down the program... went to her bedroom... and a buzzing sound proceded to be coming from her room!...

I went back to bed very angry, and crying a little!... :(

I'm now pushing our estate agent to try and sell quicker (not an easy thing) and I'm going to speak to my Solicitor this week!...

I'm past the angry stage... I confronted her on Friday, and told her my thoughts.. and said that When (not if) he dumps her, it could be next week.. month or in 6 months time but he will find a new bit of pixelated skirt whos easier and not so needy!!... I'm not going to be a shoulder to cry on anymore!...

I still can't get the sight (pixels or not) of some other guy having sex on a beach with my wife (she's still leagally my wife!! and I sort of still love her!!)... Ive not been able to sleep much due to this vision appearing in my mind every time I close my eyes!! :mad:

and NO THIS ISN'T A MADE UP STORY!!!... IT'S ACTUALLY HAPPENING!!.. :(
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That stuff made me giggle.

The pixelated dude is obviously more alpha than you, personally i woulda put my size 10 through her pc.
 
Simian said:
I'm past the angry stage... I confronted her on Friday, and told her my thoughts.. and said that When (not if) he dumps her, it could be next week.. month or in 6 months time but he will find a new bit of pixelated skirt whos easier and not so needy!!... I'm not going to be a shoulder to cry on anymore!...

I still can't get the sight (pixels or not) of some other guy having sex on a beach with my wife (she's still leagally my wife!! and I sort of still love her!!)... Ive not been able to sleep much due to this vision appearing in my mind every time I close my eyes!! :mad:
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rofl :D:D

With all due respect, shes not exactly an oil painting, she probably just enjoys getting attention that she doesn't get in real life.
 
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be a man you pussyy! come on, tell her to gtfo or unplug the computer. Tell her how sad it is, or in fact get a girl round and pump her silly in the lounge infront of your wife..

yeayea you love her, well she clearly doesnt love you.. end it now, or when shes next on typing furiously go in, and turn the computer off in front of her. If she has a big strop, then that would be pretty sadd
 
I know this is really hard for you but why didn't you simply turn the power off or unplug her PC from the main socket? See how she would react?

The words aren't enough you know...
 
Simian said:
When she was just sitting 'cuddling with him watching the ocean, they were both furiously typing/chatting to each other... the same when on the boat, even when they were snogging in the rose field!... she didn't seem to be looking at the screen much during any of it... till the incedent at 1:30am... when she typed a little... the stared at the screen for a minute or so with a 'gooey' look on her face, typed a bit more, more staring... the he got off her.. they both stood up... He dressed and teleported away, leaving her standing there naked! (what a class act!!)... thats when she shut down the program... went to her bedroom... and a buzzing sound proceded to be coming from her room!...
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I put on my robe and wizard hat.
 
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