secret comes out...

Zip · 2 May 2006 at 15:42

Oracle said:
You mean apart from all this!?

(Acts 15:20; Romans 1:29; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 7:2; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7).

The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality, because they all involve having sex with someone you are not married to. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations that God approves of (Hebrews 13:4).

In that case, this whole generation is screwed

jezsoup · 2 May 2006 at 15:43

Zip said:
In that case, this whole generation is screwed

Exactly

Well no not screwed, but, according the Christian teachings, are doing wrong.

Lowe · 2 May 2006 at 15:44

iCraig said:
You're just annoyed that kinky sex has gone out the window now arn't you?

TBH in my experience the God Squad lot were the kinkiest out of all of em!

/thinks back to 6 months of carnal sin with a Catholic RE teacher 5 years older than me... I'm gonna burn for eternity for the things I did to her

Zip · 2 May 2006 at 15:47

jezsoup said:
Exactly

Well no not screwed, but, according the Christian teachings, are doing wrong.

You would think all those preists would know better then

dont shoot me

jezsoup · 2 May 2006 at 15:48

Zip said:
You would think all those preists would know better then

dont shoot me

Yeah you would have done!!!

FirebarUK · 2 May 2006 at 15:48

I'm quite surprised you didn't know it wasn't ok outside of marriage.
Not just from the Christian point of view, but all the problems it raises (think through it logically - I'm not going to start a thread within a thread

).

Anyhow, you gotta stop taking the ****. Your headin' for a dumping.

No swearing.

Otacon

FirebarUK · 2 May 2006 at 15:50

thinks back to 6 months of carnal sin with a Catholic RE teacher 5 years older than me... I'm gonna burn for eternity for the things I did to her

That's wierd, because I've heard so many things about Catholic friends of friends being into all this kinky stuff (bad kinky - not good kinky!!).

Psyk · 2 May 2006 at 15:50

I think the only problem I'd have with going out with someone religious is if they believed in the whole no sex before marriage. I know it sounds harsh but I would dump them on the spot. Continuing to go out with them would be like a commitment to marriage because that's the only way the relationship could go any further.

Also if they kept trying to convert me it would be a problem, but then again if they were like that I probably wouldn't have gone out with them in the first place.

FirebarUK · 2 May 2006 at 15:52

Continuing to go out with them would be like a commitment to marriage because that's the only way the relationship could go any further.

I see where your coming from but if you think sex is everything in a relationship....

JRS · 2 May 2006 at 15:52

jezsoup said:
Exactly

Well no not screwed, but, according the Christian teachings, are doing wrong.

Ah, but it's okay - one of the main concepts of Christianity is forgiveness, so when we all roll up at the Pearly Gates we can just tell St Peter that we're sorry

FirebarUK · 2 May 2006 at 15:54

Then he'll see through your rubbish and that you don't mean it and bitch slap ya!

Vonhelmet · 2 May 2006 at 15:54

JRS said:
Ah, but it's okay - one of the main concepts of Christianity is forgiveness, so when we all roll up at the Pearly Gates we can just tell St Peter that we're sorry

Technically speaking, it's rather late by that point, and you likely wouldn't get near to the proverbial gates.

Psyk · 2 May 2006 at 15:55

FirebarUK said:
I see where your coming from but if you think sex is everything in a relationship....

It's not eveything but I see it as an integral part of a serious relationship.

FirebarUK · 2 May 2006 at 15:57

Ok. Sex for me is the binding part, and hence goes with marriage. I believe that not having sex beforehand can often mean you know your partner more, and that the relationship isn't then based solely upon good sex (or not

).
I had sex before I got married and I regret it really, but I think my view has become clearer through it.

locutus12 · 2 May 2006 at 15:59

iCraig said:
You're just annoyed that kinky sex has gone out the window now arn't you?

if shes a catholic then she will have her own personal dungeon :rolleyes:

FirebarUK · 2 May 2006 at 15:59

Look how off-topic we've come

jezsoup · 2 May 2006 at 15:59

FirebarUK said:
I see where your coming from but if you think sex is everything in a relationship....

I can vouch for the fact it isnt, Ive been with my girlfriend for just over 2 years we havent had sex or anything and have no intention on untill we marry. Our relationship hasnt suffered or anythign because fo this decision. Infact it will make it more special when we do get married we will be excahanging more than just vows and rings with each other.

FirebarUK · 2 May 2006 at 16:01

Too right. Bravo.

It's what my Wife's parents said and we ignored it, they did the same and regretted it too. Both slipped up, certainly try not too - really do.

M0KUJ1N · 2 May 2006 at 16:02

dump the crazy bint tbh.

Do you really want to be held responsible for prolonging the genes of people naive enough to fall hook line and sinker for a bunch of 2,500 yr old fairy tales?

/me puts on the fire-retardent suit

jezsoup · 2 May 2006 at 16:03

FirebarUK said:
Too right. Bravo.

It's what my Wife's parents said and we ignored it, they did the same and regretted it too. Both slipped up, certainly try not too - really do.

Dotn worry I have every intention to wait it out and so does she. I think the fact me and Kate are so open with each otehr about it makes it so much easier, we have both talked about it and both decided we want to wait till we are married.

Theres also the fact in september im going to be doin youth out reach work and one of the areas covered is relationships and sex (oh that should be fun!!) and I dont want to be a total hypocrite.