Not sure whether I'd get too hung up on the driving assistant plus package tbh. Now I've had it I'm not sure I'd actually spend the money on that option box myself. It can't drive itself without constant intervention anyway so you are better off just driving it the old fashioned way. It's something cool to show your friends but beyond that I'm not sold on how useful it really is.
Having lived with it for a little bit, I would say the absolute must have options are.
- Icon adaptive lights
- comfort access
- 4 zone AC / rear heated seats (young baby so rear seats in constant use)
- Heated wheel (I get Reynauds so this is awesome)
- Heads up display
- 360 camera
- Electronic damper control. Ride is sublime even on 20s and the roll control is great with the active roll bars.
The rest of it I could take or leave. Semi-autonomous driving isn't all that. Bowers and wilkins sound system is very average really, I don't think it's any better than base audio system in my old Toyota. Wireless charger is a bit useless, phone is tucked way in the centre console and you can't see it or access it easily. Soft close doors, bit useless, you have to make an effort to close the door softly enough for it not to just latch fully anyway.