Something like that, yes. In many cases where there is a mental health issue in the family, many parents will a] turn a blind eye [because they don't want to look at themselves] or b] be so used to it that they have given up questioning it. Both types of behaviour are complicit in their own ways.
Also a lot depends on what she means when she says she "begged" the NHS. What did she do, speak to her son's GP - or urge him to do so - get a referral form for mental health, sit down with him and honestly together - with sincere, caring and direct questioning, answer the questions honestly before submisson? Because if she had, he would be on at least step 3 help immediately. Maybe even step 4.
Someone like me can get referred for intensive CBT and psychiatric help and he can't? And I'm not about to go out with a gun murdering anyone either. No, something doesn't add up at all.
I don't know.