Is it the age gap most are having issues with here or the trust breach? Just... a point to get clear.
I... tend to think along the lines of the "half age + 7"... "rule" which... while.. some may think it a bit silly, if you do some figures is probably fairly reasonable.
Where do people think the age gap becomes reasonable? Is 18 and 27 reasonable? Is 17 and 21/2/3 reasonable? It's not really like there's hard rules on it (outside the trust issue) once it's 2 consenting adults.
Personally, (me) 18 and (her) 26 happened. Most fun I've ever had
. Over half a lifetime ago now though 
Would those judging it consider that weird? Is it just the extra year to "legal in most jurisdictions" issue?
I... tend to think along the lines of the "half age + 7"... "rule" which... while.. some may think it a bit silly, if you do some figures is probably fairly reasonable.
Where do people think the age gap becomes reasonable? Is 18 and 27 reasonable? Is 17 and 21/2/3 reasonable? It's not really like there's hard rules on it (outside the trust issue) once it's 2 consenting adults.
Personally, (me) 18 and (her) 26 happened. Most fun I've ever had
. Over half a lifetime ago now though Would those judging it consider that weird? Is it just the extra year to "legal in most jurisdictions" issue?
