Soldato
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Again, that's not specific to autism. There are challenges but there are also ways to cope, often resultuing in a more social Autie than someone who's just socially awkward because they haven't learned the lessons.
that is a terrible way to do things.
people who bring their full selves to work are generally happier and more productive
Such research suggests that being fully focused on each domain (e.g., completely attending to work when at work, or focusing on nonwork matters when off the job) and keeping them segmented can reduce dysfunctional crossdomain interruptions and work—family conflict. It also enables people to more easily psychologically detach from the other domain (e.g., not think about work when at home, in order to recover mentally and be able to completely transition to the domain in which one intends to focus). Researchers supporting separation of work and nonwork roles argue that this approach is helpful for high quality role experiences and avoiding work—family conflicts. Separation enables people to focus exclusively on the work realm or the nonwork realm without competing pressures. Scholars argue that some individuals have psychological preferences for work detachment to enhance well-being. Studies show that having some separation helps many people recover from work and also improves mental and physical health, as well as sleep quality.
as in if you were in the closet and you like to keep your personal life seperate it's likely your colleagues could be putting their foot in it without realising, etc. like oh sandra down there is a nice girl why don't you go talk to her. but since personal is personal you won't disclose you prefer james over there.
I can second this but i work directly with 17 people and passively with maybe 55. Of the 17 i work with 3 are blokes, 1 who is a really good friend outside of work and the other 2 i dont actively socialise with but i dont shy away from interaction.I'm the only dude working amongst I'd say 50-60 women both young and approaching 60. It's ******* awesome. I've learnt so much, yet so little at the same time...
I can second this but i work directly with 17 people and passively with maybe 55. Of the 17 i work with 3 are blokes, 1 who is a really good friend outside of work and the other 2 i dont actively socialise with but i dont shy away from interaction.
Of the 14 women they range from 23 to 55, 2 in their early 40's are effectively work wives, 1 is my manager who who is also in her late 30s and we go out for meals from time to time as a foursome. There are 2 women both 23 who i get on incredibly well with and tbh if i had a chance i would lol. The remaining 9 women i get on really well with except 1 who is a drama bitchface but i wouldn't socialise outside of work with any of these 9
Work and home life has no limitsso everyone knows everyones business and generally everyone is supportive and gets on well. The Banter is top draw across the board and if anything could sometimes be taken as sexual harassment if you didnt know the people and thats coming from the women not the men.
The downside is i know about everyones child birth and if they split from the V to the A and all the gory details. They all announce when they are "going for a wee" and i think im aware of everyones menstrual cycles..... lol
Wouldnt change the work atmosphere for anything though as to be honest, times when ive become annoyed with the Job its the people around me that make it worth putting up with the bad days!
No. I can talk to pretty much anyone about anything, regardless of whether it's something I'm particularly well versed on or interested in.
In work, at home, in the pub, whatever - it's all the same.
Sounds like a right barrel of laughs!You only need worry when yours starts to sync up with those of all the other women!!
"Nothing, really".
Sounds like a right barrel of laughs!
Luckily I work in a room full of people who like offensive humor and having a laugh, so it's great. It makes work a much better place
We still get more work done than the squares next door too.
You spend a significant amount of time at work, just sat their in abject silence sounds horrible, I am more than happy for my social life and work life to cross over, some folk are really against this though, so i just ignore them, life is far to short to be miserable at work.
I'm the only dude working amongst I'd say 50-60 women both young and approaching 60. It's ******* awesome. I've learnt so much, yet so little at the same time...