Man of Honour
But we often hear from those doing well in that if you want a better outcome then get a better job.
Well if your struggling on £100k then move somewhere cheaper!
I don't think anyone is suggesting that if you're on 100k that you're struggling per se, it's just not magical salary that makes all your problems go away.
I do agree that it should make life less stressful and that you can manage debts more easily if you have any other than a mortgage. Depending on your situation though I don't know if you could end up buying by top tier tech and above average cars etc...
In general though I think as you earn more you spend more even if you're very careful.
Again I'm not speaking from my perspective just making a more generic point from conversations etc..