But these things take time, and because the time is often several years, you don't suddenly think "holy **** I'm rich" - because you won't be "rich", you'll be living a life where you shouldn't be worrying about bills, and possibly be able to take 1-2 holidays a year. So yes pretty decent compared to many, but similarly when I was single living in a house share in London on less than 30k a year, I still was able to clear my debts, travel, and survive and save - had I been given that salary as a young 20 something god knows what I'd have done with it.
My point is it takes time to build the life with tapering increase in income, it's not like winning the lottery. Yes dropping to 25k the frivolous spending would stop as would a lot of the luxuries...
Now if I'm talking about my personal experiences, no I don't struggle to pay the bills, I go on multiple holidays a year, and I don't have any debts other than a credit card. The excess I plough into my pension and into my children's accounts. However that's no different to a lot of people here who are on a breadth of salaries. It's just about perspectives and priorities. I also do extra work (NED) to give extra pocket money, and my wife has gone back to work after nearly 7 years of not working - albeit not earning a lot but it covers her bills and her hobbies. As an individual I may be a top earner, as an average 2.4 children family, my relative "wealth" is reduced as you share it across the family.