I'd personally aim for more protein, there is no harm and it will make it far less likely to lose any lean mass. If you'r worried about calories just replace some carbs with protein, which is far safer in terms of fat storage anyway.
It's because you're saying massive like its a good thing, especially when you do things like comparing yourself to bouncers and say you're the biggest in your gym etc. To be honest it makes you sound like one of those guys who because he is quite big (tall and high body fat) goes around thinking he's some kind of tough guy.
I'm not saying you are like that, but the way you comunicate certainly makes it seem that way. It's your responsibility to commucate the message you're trying to get across, not ours to struggle to find it (although a lot here have tried). I'm not trying to be mean about your weight, to the contrary I think it's great your making progress in the way you want to.
But crucially, notice how nobody else seems to argue that much.
[random anecdote]I had a incident with one of these guys in a club a while ago. I was in a bad mood already when a group a guys started trying to wind me up, led by a fat guy who was a little taller than me. All came to a head when the guy pushed me from behind (I was ignoring them) and then I turned round and much to the surprise of him and his friends I shoved him clean through his group. To be honest I'm not pround of that. But to be more honest, I kinda am
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