Pre-rinse, wash, rinse, clay, re-wash, rinse, dry, wax.
Gold glass wax looks stunning, but it doesn't last 5 minutes - you should try some hard wax
Clay you jsut rub over the paint to get the grit and crap out of the clearcoat, whilst using plenty of lube. I use a cheap sprayer bottle with warm water and a tiny bit of car shampoo in. No need for these fancy expensive solution.
Was, as Mike has said, collonite 476 is pretty good and will last you forever, or experiment with others.
But as wth all detailing products, everyone has their own opinion of what is best so there really isn't a definative answer out there to most questions.
Did a couple of cars this weekend, without burning through any paint
911 - who says silver is unrewarding
Not a car, but snow foam has many uses - the bike and the garage door cleaned from filthy in minutes, without even touching them