The best bang for buck for beginner visual is usually a dobsonian.
Visual requires aperture so that you collect enough light for your eye to register the objects.
The next thing is that Moon/Planets and Deep Space Objects differ in their requirements. Moon+planets need long focal lengths to see details - starting at 910mm for the moon going up to 2000-3000 for planets.
At this fl a reflector is best (and cheaper) - both dobsonians and newtonian (they are the same thing but the dob sits on the ground rather than a proper mount). You'll also want to have some stability as things beyond 1000mm fl will start to show up vibrations very easily - again this is where a dob wins (unless you're spending ££££ on a mount).
Because the dob mounting is so cheap, you'll get more aperture etc at the expense of accuracy of tracking - the basic dob you move by hand (even some expensive high lambda mirror ones I've seen are manual too). You can motorise them - both tracking and GOTO but I'd leave this...
If you want to take photos using a web cam - then a newtonian on a equatorial (EQ) mount is better than a dob. It offers better tracking but cheap mounts will suffer from stability.. so fill the legs of the stand with sand to help..
That said - either way I would go for a
minimum of 150mm aperture (primary mirror size). Preferably 200mm.
Now to the disadvantage of mirrored scopes - size.. the dob and the newt will be quite large.. probably larger than you're expecting (or your other half may expect ).
If you want to wheel it out and have a look then a dob is great. No setup/alignment just point and look. The newt does things differently.. I've seen some really good views through a 16" aperture dob but also some great webcam astro-photography results from one too.. if you start down the dark side (astro-photography) then that couple of hundred will multiply..
Examples of dobs:
http://www.firstlightoptics.com/dobsonians.html
Examples of newts:
http://www.firstlightoptics.com/reflectors.html
Then if you go more specialist to planets then maksutov and casses..