What’s brave about admitting that?
The Rise of Lonely Single Straight Men
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He's far too busy spending his money and enjoying his life!
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Men are ultimately the reason men are single. Have you met them?
If that's what you interpreted from what I posted then I dont have an other words for you.
Ouch!! That's a wee bit harsh!
But true!
Going through this thread there are some very unproductive men when it comes to attracting women and you know what? That applies to many men in the world today. It would be very interesting to see how they apply that way of thinking to other parts of their life. I bet that's also a poop show!
When I came on here and offer some friendly advice, me who recently became single and getting some good results. Waiting for the ex to come back and complain about why I have moved on so easily….but that’s not for this thread
I said earlier, dress better. Don't approach women with messy hair, Star Wars T-shirt with your stomaching hanging out expecting to get positive reception from women. What did I get??? "Nah! Nah! Nah! YOU GOT TO BE GOOD LOOKING!!!!"
Also said for dating apps, take some decent photos of yourself. Get a professional photographer to take photos of you out and about, in a natural environment, doing your hobbies. What did I get??? "Nah! Nah! Nah! YOU GOT TO BE GOOD LOOKING!!!!"
These take very little effort, just abit of investment in yourself. WHICH WILL ACTUALLY MAKE YOU LOOK BETTER! Yet, I see push back!
You don't want to make an effort to invest in yourself to get attraction from women yet you are quick to waste hundreds, maybe thousands of pounds on the latest GPU, CPU, i-Device and have the cheek to complain about "modern" women, their dating expectations and why you are not getting them.
When I was on dating sites, I looked at the men's area to check my competition. See how they looked, what I was up against. 99.9% of the profiles were embarrassing. Crappy selfies, low light photos, photos of them out with "the lads" drinking looking in a bad state. No wonder men are struggling on dating sites! You all look god awful! I wouldn't date you either if I was a woman! Not even going to talk about the profile because lets be honest, women won’t look at your profile if your photos look like garbage. Worse thing is, you all can do so much better but you choose not to. So whose fault is that?
We are men, most of us don’t get blessed with dashing good looks to attract women. Unlike women who can attract men with very little or no effort. But that's life, it has always been like that and always will be. Got a problem with that? Take it up with Mother Nature or whichever Creator you prey to because they made it that way and when you get an answer, let us know!
Until then, this is how it is. Yes, women can be crappy, flaky, have stupid high expectations but it’s never going change as long as we live in this comfortable world.
So, either play the game, can get on with that needs to be done to get results or sit on the bench and stop complaining. Because we are men, therefore nobody cares especially women!
I really hope you are because my best friend is in the same state and I'm not stupid, deep down he's unhappy wants a women in his life.
And single women must be worse if they are unable to find and keep a man.
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anytime Mr Knight
A professional photographer..... HahahahaIf that's what you interpreted from what I posted then I dont have an other words for you.
But true!
Going through this thread there are some very unproductive men when it comes to attracting women and you know what? That applies to many men in the world today. It would be very interesting to see how they apply that way of thinking to other parts of their life. I bet that's also a poop show!
When I came on here and offer some friendly advice, me who recently became single and getting some good results. Waiting for the ex to come back and complain about why I have moved on so easily….but that’s not for this thread
I said earlier, dress better. Don't approach women with messy hair, Star Wars T-shirt with your stomaching hanging out expecting to get positive reception from women. What did I get??? "Nah! Nah! Nah! YOU GOT TO BE GOOD LOOKING!!!!"
Also said for dating apps, take some decent photos of yourself. Get a professional photographer to take photos of you out and about, in a natural environment, doing your hobbies. What did I get??? "Nah! Nah! Nah! YOU GOT TO BE GOOD LOOKING!!!!"
These take very little effort, just abit of investment in yourself. WHICH WILL ACTUALLY MAKE YOU LOOK BETTER! Yet, I see push back!
You don't want to make an effort to invest in yourself to get attraction from women yet you are quick to waste hundreds, maybe thousands of pounds on the latest GPU, CPU, i-Device and have the cheek to complain about "modern" women, their dating expectations and why you are not getting them.
When I was on dating sites, I looked at the men's area to check my competition. See how they looked, what I was up against. 99.9% of the profiles were embarrassing. Crappy selfies, low light photos, photos of them out with "the lads" drinking looking in a bad state. No wonder men are struggling on dating sites! You all look god awful! I wouldn't date you either if I was a woman! Not even going to talk about the profile because lets be honest, women won’t look at your profile if your photos look like garbage. Worse thing is, you all can do so much better but you choose not to. So whose fault is that?
We are men, most of us don’t get blessed with dashing good looks to attract women. Unlike women who can attract men with very little or no effort. But that's life, it has always been like that and always will be. Got a problem with that? Take it up with Mother Nature or whichever Creator you prey to because they made it that way and when you get an answer, let us know!
Until then, this is how it is. Yes, women can be crappy, flaky, have stupid high expectations but it’s never going change as long as we live in this comfortable world.
So, either play the game, can get on with that needs to be done to get results or sit on the bench and stop complaining. Because we are men, therefore nobody cares especially women!
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Are you an incel?
I bet you have pronouns in your twitter bio.
I won't lie. I had to google what "incel" meant lol
Is this a new term? Perhaps from a different (newer) generation than myself?
Anyway I wouldn't count myself as one. As I mentioned earlier in this thread, just because I am single and made peace with the likelyhood that I won't ever be in a relationship, doesn't mean I hate women!
Is this a new term? Perhaps from a different (newer) generation than myself?
Anyway I wouldn't count myself as one. As I mentioned earlier in this thread, just because I am single and made peace with the likelyhood that I won't ever be in a relationship, doesn't mean I hate women!
This is the thing that is lost on a lot of people. If you are happy that's all that matters. Just because someone else seems to think you shouldn't be in whatever situation one is in doesn't mean anything at all.
Not everybody wants to live life 101.
That's amazing you've met them all?
for every single man there's probably a single woman, unless they all turned lesbian
Actually...
97.75 males per 100 females
The Sex Ratio in UK in 2021 is 97.75 males per 100 females. There are 33.72 million males and 34.49 million females in UK. The percentage of female population is 50.57% compare to 49.43% male population. UK has 0.77 million more females than males.
United Kingdom demographics 2024 - StatisticsTimes.com
Year wise demographics of UK by United Nations. Data tables and charts.
statisticstimes.com
You spend far too much time thinking about the opposite sex my friend. You have said some very good and encouraging things but you might wanna think about taking a step back and relaxing a bitIf that's what you interpreted from what I posted then I dont have an other words for you.
But true!
Going through this thread there are some very unproductive men when it comes to attracting women and you know what? That applies to many men in the world today. It would be very interesting to see how they apply that way of thinking to other parts of their life. I bet that's also a poop show!
When I came on here and offer some friendly advice, me who recently became single and getting some good results. Waiting for the ex to come back and complain about why I have moved on so easily….but that’s not for this thread
I said earlier, dress better. Don't approach women with messy hair, Star Wars T-shirt with your stomaching hanging out expecting to get positive reception from women. What did I get??? "Nah! Nah! Nah! YOU GOT TO BE GOOD LOOKING!!!!"
Also said for dating apps, take some decent photos of yourself. Get a professional photographer to take photos of you out and about, in a natural environment, doing your hobbies. What did I get??? "Nah! Nah! Nah! YOU GOT TO BE GOOD LOOKING!!!!"
These take very little effort, just abit of investment in yourself. WHICH WILL ACTUALLY MAKE YOU LOOK BETTER! Yet, I see push back!
You don't want to make an effort to invest in yourself to get attraction from women yet you are quick to waste hundreds, maybe thousands of pounds on the latest GPU, CPU, i-Device and have the cheek to complain about "modern" women, their dating expectations and why you are not getting them.
When I was on dating sites, I looked at the men's area to check my competition. See how they looked, what I was up against. 99.9% of the profiles were embarrassing. Crappy selfies, low light photos, photos of them out with "the lads" drinking looking in a bad state. No wonder men are struggling on dating sites! You all look god awful! I wouldn't date you either if I was a woman! Not even going to talk about the profile because lets be honest, women won’t look at your profile if your photos look like garbage. Worse thing is, you all can do so much better but you choose not to. So whose fault is that?
We are men, most of us don’t get blessed with dashing good looks to attract women. Unlike women who can attract men with very little or no effort. But that's life, it has always been like that and always will be. Got a problem with that? Take it up with Mother Nature or whichever Creator you prey to because they made it that way and when you get an answer, let us know!
Until then, this is how it is. Yes, women can be crappy, flaky, have stupid high expectations but it’s never going change as long as we live in this comfortable world.
So, either play the game, can get on with that needs to be done to get results or sit on the bench and stop complaining. Because we are men, therefore nobody cares especially women!
Yes. It doesn't really mean anything other than being a sex-specific insult. Which is nothing new, really. There will probably be another new one in another generation. It doesn't seem worth keeping up with such things to me.
Or they share a man. Works for some people.