*URGENT* - monitoring premisis

apologies for the "friend" :)

Well what am I supposed to do?

tried the police? no go
tried the landlord - only so much they can do
tried environment health - whitewash report
tried solicitors on the civil matter - they cant do anything apart from take my money. they said that whilst he is in breach of a certain law, to get an injunction is very difficult and costly.

next?
 
firehawk said:
next?
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MOVE OUT.

Sorry to be blunt, I understand the situation you are in and how horrible it can be, but you have to understand that living with it in hope it will all be fixed is ludicrous when it can be sorted by just finding somewhere else to live.
 
easier said than done. why should I move when im not the one causing this hassle? this is a cop out and the "easy option" - im sick of people these days taking the easy way out.

this isnt a solution to the problem. the real core problem. if you have the money for me and a good place - then please, help me and pay my rent and help me move.
 
Not that it matters, but he or she? (because you are not clear). Honestly, just laugh it off, laugh in their face. What you are doing is giving them the power. Record for evidence but don't let them work you up.
 
firehawk said:
easier said than done. why should I move when im not the one causing this hassle? this is a cop out and the "easy option" - im sick of people these days taking the easy way out.
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Then I'm sorry but it is your problem, you are putting pride above your own safety and well being, which is frankly retarded.
 
they DO work me up a lot. my health is effected. my work etc...
its both. SHE has a kid (she is 24, single parent, brings random guys round and I can HEAR THEM AT IT). he is the father of the kid, on off relationship. comes and goes as he pleases.
 
A) You sound mental, get a grip. You may have been pushed, you may be an attention whore, I don't care. Act rationally at all times and don't tell people to clear off who are giving free advice. Just ignore the advice, or take it on board.

B) You want to go out tomorrow and monitor your room. Frankly the logistics of this are not feasible. You've left it too late to set up a system that can do so. And are you going to be free 24/7 to monitor the live feed solutions tomorrow? Ergo, don't bother.

C) Take all of your things of value with you that you can. If you seriously think he's going to trash your home then he's going to do it. Take the precautions you can, lock the door and take your valuables. Take pictures of everything as it is when you leave.

D) If you foresee a situation where he may threaten you again use your phone to record the audio. Obviously not visibly as this will probably enrage him.

E) You sound really isolated and you're putting this problem to the internet. Go be with friends/family for a bit. Get your **** together. Share it with them.
 
I guess the cost of living in a shared house is having to put up with each other. You live together, if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen.

It's not worth all the hassle, just move and get on with your life.
 
Why dont you try that thing on home alone where he warms up the door knob before you leave? at least then you will know he tried to break in becuase he will burn his hand!.
 
I agree with firehawk, he shouldn't have to move out, because others are the problem. I don't have advice, sorry. Hope it eventually works out, but yea you should not have to be the one to move out because someone else is making life hell for you.
 
Scott88 said:
I agree with firehawk, he shouldn't have to move out, because others are the problem. I don't have advice, sorry. Hope it eventually works out, but yea you should not have to be the one to move out because someone else is making life hell for you.
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It's all well and good looking at the principle of the situation, and I agree its not fair he should have to move out, however he's living in a shared house with a noisy, rude, intimidating female single parent.

Move out.
 
But what exactly is he afraid of? All I can gather is that some chick upstairs has sex and that she can be noisey.

OP also mentioned hospitalising somebody, which I find a little far-fetched. What for? Sex?
 
firehawk said:
ok, this is going beyond the scope of the thread my friend. id happily talk about it but im sick to death talking about it and nothing happening. how would you feel if it were done to you with what ive suffered for the last year and 2 months, every single day with the exception of 13 days in that year?

i dont have much time either. I NEED TO TAKE ACTION! ACTION MUST BE DONE TO PREVENT IDIOTS LIKE THAT FROM DOING SERIOUS DAMAGE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
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Dude, first off id get yourself checked for OCD or something.

Forgive me but how will he know if you are in or out? People have domestics and can shout and slam doors, that doesn't mean he wants to rob you. If he did, and was well 'ard and is sitting there contemplating how to rob you all day, couldn't he just break in whilst your there?

Does your door have a lock?
 
You sound like a loose cannon and not in a cool 80's action movie kind of way, more a likely to go postal and burn your house down kind of way. Do not do this.

You appear to have tried every option available to you, none of which have worked. The one thing you haven't done is remove yourself from the problem, i.e. move. If you will not do this due to principal then that is your decision and nothing will change.
 
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