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I think I just read the plot for a new sitcom. It has potential.

Serious - caring about your stuff, when there is no present threat to your stuff and you'll be miles away free of stress doing what you enjoy, is freakishly retarded. It's just stuff.

I'd be happy to get out as much as possible in your situation. My very honest opinion is you need to get some distance to recover your sense of perspective (holiday? Even book into a premier inn close to work, you may enjoy the familiarity and more regular lifestyle - and remember stuff is just stuff), then when your head is clear make a rational decision about the future. Don't even bother packing, just get some shirts from tesco, enjoy your break.

If this thread is at all serious you are clearly in a high emotional state at the moment and although you don't realise it you are unable to make rational choices.
 
Wow I certainly would not have put up with these issues for a year...

It sounds as if they feel they can walk all over you so change that.

Perhaps you know someone who would be willing to intimidate them on your behalf, if you can't do so yourself.

It's childish but you don't seem to have many options left...
 
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OCuK armchair critic gets told, enrages other armchair critics above. 5 star thread. I am surprised I have not seen the usual suspect chip in with random butt hurt yet :p

Sorry, I stopped posting after I realised the OP is a complete loon and went to play some Metro.

Seriously no wonder he is getting "fobbed off" by the authorities. Let's weigh up his options.

1. Put up with harassment and threats for OVER A YEAR, await magical resolution.

2. Move out.

Decisions, decisions.
 
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Wow I certainly would not have put up with these issues for a year...

It sounds as if they feel they can walk all over you so change that.

Perhaps you know someone who would be willing to intimidate them on your behalf, if you can't do so yourself.

It's childish but you don't seem to have many options left...

Reading between the lines the girl upstairs is probably posting the identical thread on mumsnet.

One sided stories are just that.
 
Just tell her to **** off, Stand up for yourself or she will do it even more. Try calling citizens advice. You have tried all possible options appart from moving or what I just said.
 
I've just read the entire thread, I might be tired as it is early in the morning, but I'm not precisely sure what the issue is other than the girl has noisey sex?

If you could provide a summary of the incidents or particular issues, I'm sure we could tailor some recommendations to resolve it. However, from what you've written, it also doesn't sound like a resolution is possible, though I understand you want to stay there perhaps on principal or circumstance I would strongly recommend moving out given how much this is taking hold on your life.
 
Is this like fight club where you are the man/women upstairs?. You can't move out because you've done that before and they always follow you and inevitably beat you up and ruin you life.

Is your webcam going to show you trashing your own house (not flat, there is no upstairs flat).
 
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I fear he is going to break in or do some serious damage to the property (again).

I'm confused! Hopefully you aren't this random with the police and whoever else or I can see why they don't do anything.

He may break in again! Then you say he hasn't broken in before and hasn't damaged anything but bangs doors.

Then the he turns into a single mother half way through the thread. So is it her who threatens you?! Or do they even threaten you at all? Or do they just shout at each other and you think they are talking to you?

Crazy person is crazy!
 
God I seriously, deeply love the ocuk forums. Keep us updated op after the insurance payout gets u a new PC.
 
Go to the gym, pile on loads of muscle in a short time with steroids, the steroids have the added benefit of making you a nutter. Get a few goat tattoos, make site they are visible and smear lambs blood on your doorframe nightly. Leave chanting music on in your flat 24/7 and do everything by candle light. Maybe get a smoke machine. Just sayin'.
 
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