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op has abandoned thread i see. However seriously if its bothering you that much move out! stuff your pride. Also I to am totally confused as to whet the issue is? Also explain your house I genuinely don't understand the layout, how you explain it he/she can just walk round anyway or is it actually walled off?
 
Mental....

Chicken oriental.

I concur.

OP how exactly does she harass you as you have not said, other than her boyfriend comes round whenever he like (not your house) and they have sex? How does this lead to your property being broken into?

If you were more clear then it would help people help you, at the moment you appear to be coming across rather nutty.

As you mentioned earlier all the authorities police, council, solicitors are saying there is no problem, whilst you could be very unlucky I find this hard to believe.
 
Stop paying rent, save it up as a deposit for a new place, if your landlord complains to you, say the living conditions are unacceptable.

Or sleep with your neighbour
 
I think those that have lived next to an intimidating neighbour (law unto themselves and hypocrites) would be more understanding. If you feel isolated with this it really can drive you around the bend. It's the reason why I gave the advice earlier in the thread.

Basically they are bullies, and you need to treat them as such.
 
Aww you lot are mean a bunch :(

Op has said that he has mental health issues (probably depression) and I have gleamed from the thread that there are 2 people living upstairs in a converted house (one flat on the ground floor - the op's, and one upstairs) with a shared access/ front door.

The upstairs occupants are a bloke who was cool with Op and was first to move in, and a girl/ woman with a child, who has since moved in (approx 1 year ago) and its since then that its has all gone to ****

Obv.'s your all right in saying that you don't really know why its all gone to **** aside from intimidation from the bloke at 3am/ middle of the night on more than one occasion (I guess) and that the girl is having a wild time with other guys when the bloke is out.

Add that to the domestics/ door slamming etc that the Op mentioned and that this seems to have been going on for a long time makes for a pretty unhappy situation.

I am guessing that the Op is probably not in a financial position to just up and move out, take a holiday or go and live in a hotel for a week or so, which is adding to his mental state of mind

Op is clearly very fragile and has a commitment for work to attend to - I am guessing that since all this started he hasn't left the flat unless totally necessary - and he doesn't feel that his flat is secure enough to leave empty for the day

Hopefully the Op is getting some help with his mental health issues. I just wish he would explain the situation a little better - but you lot are horrible at times. Compassion and understanding is dead on here. Yes I have made some assumptions about the thread, but honestly!
 
Extend the olive branch of peace and offer to cook a meal for the lady and her man friend. That way you can sort out your differences over some food and wine. When the sedatives have taken effect, pass their slumbering bodies through a wood chipper and pour their liquid remains down the drain.

:)
 
Extend the olive branch of peace and offer to cook a meal for the lady and her man friend. That way you can sort out your differences over some food and wine. When the sedatives have taken effect, pass their slumbering bodies through a wood chipper and pour their liquid remains down the drain.

:)

This seems to be the only viable option.
 
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