Violent Ex-Girlfriend

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AJUK said:
As she works for a solicitor, ask her advice about a restraining order. :p

Report her and follow through with it otherwise it won't stop. Alternatively, next time she attacks you, fight back and punch her out, you will be within your rights as she attacked you.

Actually, the first thing is a warning letter :p

If that fails then a Non-Molestation order or a restraining order.
 
Can you imagine the uproar if everything was flipped over? i.e. she cheated on him and then months later attacked her with a wine bottle and then some, everyone would be screaming for her to press charges and I’m pretty sure she would. In this day and age women bang on about equality and sexism but when it comes to issues like this they still want to be treated as helpless, in my opinion she’s had her first warning and that’s that, I would tell her to go and talk to someone about her anger issues and if she refused I would report her.
 
Gilly said:
I don't think I'd report her. Not this time. She showed remorse and in my eyes from what you say you did deserve a bit of a kicking anyway.

She knows she did wrong, time to leave it. If it happens again then raise the issue again.

Thats what I'd do anyway.

Nuff said imo
 
She knows that you're prepared to go to the police and what a second offence in a short space of time will mean. I'd tell her "This stops - now!"
 
I might let her off this time but I'd make clear to her that if she came near me again she'd regret it.

It's strange to see people condoning the bunny boiler's violence. I'm sure if your girlfriend cheated on you, you wouldn't get off with smashing a glass over her head.
 
tenchi-fan said:
I might let her off this time but I'd make clear to her that if she came near me again she'd regret it.

It's strange to see people condoning the bunny boiler's violence. I'm sure if your girlfriend cheated on you, you wouldn't get off with smashing a glass over her head.

The majority aren't condoning it, we are mearly saying "do you want to ruin this girls life over it".

KaHn
 
dirtydog said:
:p

I doubt the 'chivalrous' types in this thread would agree.
I reckon she would.

I wouldn't dish one out but I'd love the idea of it and would need to restrain myself.
 
She's violent and nasty with it, tell the police and let them deal with it, it's what they do.

It's the best thing you can do, if she can be that aggressive with you (not seen for 6 months) think what she can be like with people close to her.
 
dirtydog said:
And would you honestly say that if the shoe was on the other foot?

Yes, I do not see the point in ruining the rest of someones life over something so trivial, so he got a bruised head for cheating on a lass, I think hes lucky he didnt get his nuts cut off, or if she had older brothers worse. Granted if he got hurt then they would be no other course of action but he hasn't. I think he should really watch what hes doing in future as if he messes the wrong person around it could end up very nasty.

KaHn
 
I'm wondering if the Girl needs professional help - how many other people might she have attacked and persuaded not to press charges ? Sounds to me she needs a bit of councelling or an anger management course.
 
Yea you messed her about but imo that's no reason at all for her to smash a glass bottle over your head.... TWICE?!. A good slap round the chops would suffice but there is no need for violent behavour like that.

Take it all the way fella! Your worried about screwing her career up, thats the sort of stuff that happens when you smash someone round the head with glass bottles, she'll get over it. She could have screwed your face up and that's gonna be for life.
 
I've just realised no ones said it yet, so I guess i'm going to have to do the honour...

Punch her in the ovaries/norks.






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