I don't really like auto start/stop either, but it's definitely worse with an automatic gearbox. Several times I've had it turn the engine off just as I'm about to launch out of the junction onto a busy roundabout. Then it takes what feels like a lifetime for the engine to restart and the automatic gearbox to re-engage as your half poking out onto the roundabout. This isn't an issue with manual boxes as you'll be in gear and have you foot on the clutch whilst you're waiting for an opportunity to go, so the engine won't turn off, but this isn't the case with an auto.
Start/Stop can be quite maddening on an autobox. The number of times it's cut out at a busy roundabout that requires a really prompt getaway is too many. Then when you've missed your opportunity (you shouldn't gun it when it's in the process of spinning up, mechanical sympathy etc) your foot is back on the brake and yup, kills the engine again. Rinse and repeat until you turn the damn thing off. If the system was truly clever it would disable itself:
- when you are at a roundabout or give way junction (detectable by the satnav and GPS positioning),
- when the indicator is indicating,
- when the wheels are pointing in any direction other than straight
- or if that particular day has the letter 'a' in it.
Autohold systems (on BMW at least) keep the brake lights illuminated anyway, so not sure that solves the 'dazzling' issue.
I was surprised and disappointed at this on my BMW. It's why in the States where autohold is quite prolific, in traffic jams all you can see is a chain of brake lights. It doesn't quite bother me anymore and I understand the driver in front isn't trying to burn my eyes out on purpose, nor me to the person behind. If it bothers you, look away. Unless your behind one of those Mercs that has something like 8 brake lights, then you should wear sunglasses at night!