Yep this is what I read, under water up to 1.4v is supposed to be safe...I thought I was going too high by pushing them to 1.25v...probably where my initial issues came from.
CPU is now at 4ghz 1.39v (overkill for just now) as I need to see what the memory will do before I ramp it up to 5ghz for benches.
CPU is a quad 3820.
Now at 10-11-11 and still dropping, haven't touched CR, tRAS or tRFC yet though, they are still at 2T, 40 & 183 respectively. Next up 9-11-11 then down to 9-10-10 if I'm lucky.