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Jenjey

Jenjey

Jenjey

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Few friends and I were discussing something I thought I'd get your opinion on...

If you meet a guy/girl in a club and there's good conversation, you get on well and think you could get a few dates out of it....is it bad to decline an invite back to their place? Is that a deal breaker?

Similarly, if you go back to their place and one thing leads to another, is that giving the complete wrong idea or do you think things can still progress from that into dating and a relationship?
 
It really depends on the situation, one night stands are perfectly fine if both parties understand what it is, anything else which comes after that should be done in the correct order, not just meeting up for sex etc.

KaHn
 
Jenjey said:
Few friends and I were discussing something I thought I'd get your opinion on...

If you meet a guy/girl in a club and there's good conversation, you get on well and think you could get a few dates out of it....is it bad to decline an invite back to their place? Is that a deal breaker?
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Maybe it's just an unfortunate turn of phrase but "...get a few dates out of it..."? It sounds a little bit conniving but I'm sure that's not the way it is meant.

Wouldn't be a deal breaker for me but then again I don't tend to judge a potential partner on whether they choose to go to bed with me on the first date or not - I was willing to go to bed with them so why should I judge them for doing the same?

Jenjey said:
Similarly, if you go back to their place and one thing leads to another, is that giving the complete wrong idea or do you think things can still progress from that into dating and a relationship?
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As I say above, it takes two to tangle (so to speak) and I was willing to go to bed with them so if we get on well then there is no real reason why a relationship could not result from it. Setting ideas like "only sleep together after the third date" or "only return calls after XX period of time" seems pretty daft to me as it doesn't allow for individual circumstances very well - sometimes things just seem right to do at that point in time, being slavish to a certain ideal can limit you.

Notable caveat here though, I'm currently single so my advice is probably worth nothing. :)
 
I met my current gf of a year that way lol. Went back to hers..yada yada etc... and we're still going strong a year later :)

Funnily enough it was the first time either of us had ever "gone back to mine" so to speak like that. Glad it turned out well!
 
Azagoth said:
Yes they are, and no they don't! I've never had any kind of STD from a girl in my life and I get tested every two months.
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Ok, what planet do you live on?

You're seriously going to offer your own limited personal experience as evidence that frequent casual sex doesn't pose the risk of contracting and spreading sexually transmitted diseases? The two monthly clinic visit you claim to make, is there any reason for that? Are you suggesting that you very frequently have casual sex? Are you going to inform your peers that they should use condoms if they follow your incredibly irresponsible advice? Seriously, deflate your contemptible ego and grow up a little.
 
likwid said:
Ok, what planet do you live on?

You're seriously going to offer your own limited personal experience as evidence that frequent casual sex doesn't pose the risk of contracting and spreading sexually transmitted diseases? The two monthly clinic visit you claim to make, is there any reason for that? Are you suggesting that you very frequently have casual sex? Are you going to inform your peers that they should use condoms if they follow your incredibly irresponsible advice? Seriously, deflate your contemptible ego and grow up a little.
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Ofcourse he's posting using his own limited personal experience on the matter.

I am too.

Stating that one night stands spread disease is false.

Stating that one night stands spread disease if you're a retard who doesnt wear a condom, Is factual
 
It's another true Azagoth story don't you know. A player needs to get his tackle checked out regularly. Woof!
 
likwid said:
The two monthly clinic visit you claim to make, is there any reason for that?
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Yes, it's on an on going medical condition.

likwid said:
Are you suggesting that you very frequently have casual sex?
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Sadly, not as frequent as I'd like. If I'm out and it's offered to me on a plate then I'm not going to be turning it down.

likwid said:
Are you going to inform your peers that they should use condoms if they follow your incredibly irresponsible advice?
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What irresponsible advice? Of course you should use condoms if you're knobbing some little tart you've just picked up. You'd be stupid not to.

likwid said:
Seriously, deflate your contemptible ego and grow up a little.
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What? So having sex with someone you're not going to see again is somehow egotistical? Looks to me like somebody isn't getting any.
 
Jenjey said:
Few friends and I were discussing something I thought I'd get your opinion on...

If you meet a guy/girl in a club and there's good conversation, you get on well and think you could get a few dates out of it....is it bad to decline an invite back to their place? Is that a deal breaker?

Similarly, if you go back to their place and one thing leads to another, is that giving the complete wrong idea or do you think things can still progress from that into dating and a relationship?
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Do you have boobs?

Just curious. :o
 
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