[applying the usual left-to-right interpretation, which results in the answer being 5]
Now can someone explain to me in simple terms how the answer can be anything different?
Because enough people with enough power decided that the usual idea of interpreting things directionally (usually but not always left to right) should be partially ignored sometimes for maths because reasons.
It's as arbitrary as that. There is no good reason. It might be different in the future. It's not "the rules of mathematics". It's a wholly arbitrary standard of writing that doesn't conform to the usual standards of writing.
I have maths A level and genuinely, the first time I ever heard of this bodmas thing was on these forums.
Same here. I vaguely recall there being something else when I was younger, but I forget the details.