Oh I agree that 125k is a fantastic salary. I was merely stating that two people on a normal combined salary of 80k would live a similar life to one person on a single high income due to tax etc. 2x incomes get the first 25k tax free and none of them pay 40% tax. When you look at it like that the 125k doesn't look so amazing. It's about a grand extra month or 12k a year. Yet the salary in isolation is 45k more before tax.
Not necessarily. If you are on 125k but are the only bread winner it isn't that special. A couple who are both on 40k most likely have a similar lifestyle if not better.
Yes, it is that special. It's in the top 2% of earners. Just because you're bad with money or value other things doesn't make it not special.
2 people on £40k a year are bringing home £62k ish between them, one person on £125k is bringing home £76k. Already a 22.5% increase.
That's before you factor in that either the single earner is single, so they actually have 145% more income than the couple per person. Or they have a partner that doesn't need to work, so between them they're working half the hours, don't have to pay for child care and one of them has plenty of time to cook and clean etc.
So 22.5% better off, half the working hours, potentially much lower costs of living. The very fact that you have the option for one person to just not work makes it quite special.