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Well, most young people are just shallow and can't see past their instincts. You can't blame them though, it's just the way they are, they have no conscious control over it.
RANT:
Following on from the recent relationship threads and the frankly "ludicrous" advice being given I'm completely amazed at how young people today have little concept of responsibility, true love and commitment.
Stupid excuses like "the sparks gone out of the relationship" are greeted with pathetic 15 year old responses like "dump her and bone a fresh one" or "it wasn't meant to be" which openly reveal a degree of selfishness and immaturity that makes me want to vomit.
If the "spark" has gone, why don't you explore new ways to light your woman's fire? (I'm not just talking sexually here). Are today's young people so utterly devoid of conversational skills and so totally shallow that relationships are all about sex and nothing else?
I'm 35, and have been happily married for nearly 13 years. I find with every passing week that I am more and more besotted with my wife. We click on every level and have had both ups and downs but you know what, we BOTH work hard at our marriage and thats why it works.
Where is the dedication to make things work in this generation?
Where is the sense of satisfaction received from putting aside selfishness and focussing on your partner for a change?
To the shallow: I wave my fat hairy bottom in disdain in your general direction.
To the real men: I salute you good sirs.
I'm hoping not every bloke is as one dimensional as what has been evidenced in this forum!
END RANT
youre married, I would expect anyone that is married to have the dedication and put in the effort to make it continue that you speak about, if youre not married however....the world is your oyster. You should only ever get married when certain you want to spend the rest of your lives together, its not about the spark being gone at all
There are too many material distractions and too much emphesis on building an ego these days.
A lot of people want minimal effort and maximum reward, because that is the way everything else is advertised in our society. Others don't seem to understand what a relationship is really about and just have a partner as someone to shag and knock about with so they don't get bored.
Others are in needy selfish relationships where they use somone else to make themselves feel better about their own failings. Usually these relationships are conditional and as soon as the other person does not meet their needs they suddenly fall out of "love" with them.