What sort of relationship are you in?

[TW]Fox;11497833 said:
Are you not going to marry her or is this another one of those 'to show we care' engagements thats diluting the concept of engagement ;)
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Indeed, a lot of people i know are starting to get engaged after being together for a year or so, sometimes even months, with no intention of getting married anytime soon. I dont get it personally.

Anyhoo, to answer your question i'm in a relationship where we both know its not going to be forever, but we both enjoy spending time in each others company and we're having a lot of fun with it.
 
Kreeeee said:
Sounds like you lack passion in your relationship.
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Is that because we don't argue and still give each other space to live our lives to the full?

We are really in tune with each other, after 3 years I feel the passion is deep and still growing. I said she is effortless to be with, maybe you think I mean I don't put any effort in....quite the opposite. She never gives me an ounce of bother so I am always willing to go the extra mile for her. She always gets the best because she never asks for anything.

The feeling I have is that our relationship is strong and mature, I look at the relationships some of my mates are in and at 30 they are still carrying on like teenagers.
 
OzZie said:
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You win because of that picture.
 
been with my partner for 4 year's.
never had a argument in all that time.
no one wear's the trouser's as we are both equal in the relationship.
and we have a 1 year old daughter who keep's us alive.
going to get married next year.
 
Hmm sort of relationship im in??...the one where all money or most of my money goes on my gf of 2 and half yrs:p.


Seriously though im in a very happy relationship...getting married hopefully this summer. Asked her on Valentines Day to be my bitch for life:p...which she agreed to:D:p...cant be anymore happier than i am at this present time and moment....plus i get to bang a fine piece of ass for the rest of my life:D
 
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yes we did and we have sinned loads of time's as well.....lol
but ive had the snip so no more little surprise's in store for us......the last one was bad enough.
 
Married 3 years, engaged before that 2 years, shacked up together before that 2 years. A row every now and again clears out issues that both sides store up.
 
I don't get the arguments are healthy carp either. Relationships are like a cult. A cult of pairs.

People tend to choose parteners who fall into their mind pattern. People who like to be told what a good person they are find a partener who does this to enforce the same old mind pattern. A relationship needing arguments to artificially simulate excitment..the rush..urgency....most importantly DRAMA. PLaying out drama aftr drama again and again. Thus you ultimately hunt for a partener that will provide this drama.

Look for a partener for 100 love this is all you will receive in return.
 
*Moangroan* said:
I don't get the arguments are healthy carp either. Relationships are like a cult. A cult of pairs.

People tend to choose parteners who fall into their mind pattern. People who like to be told what a good person they are find a partener who does this to enforce the same old mind pattern. A relationship needing arguments to artificially simulate excitment..the rush..urgency....most importantly DRAMA. PLaying out drama aftr drama again and again. Thus you ultimately hunt for a partener that will provide this drama.

Look for a partener for 100 love this is all you will receive in return.
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You're right you know. I like drama, she likes drama, it works. But then, we have spectacular sex, I love her to bits, and she's my favourite thing. I couldn't be with a woman that wasn't strong minded and occasionally argumentative. If a woman let me walk all over her, I would. I'd then lose interest and leave.
 
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