What sort of relationship are you in?

Helios1234 · 15 Apr 2008 at 10:43

Phog said:
Single, don't know if I'm happy about it or not...

-Ad- · 15 Apr 2008 at 10:55

Stressful

Plasma tv is the topic of much discussion, especially as I own it and like to use for something other than ****** friends for which there are 2 other tvs in the flat with freeviewand dvd players.

*Whining voice* 'But it's my living room aswell'

Otherwise, I love her very much, and she has the best boobs in the world, so I'm not going anywhere. 18months now, met at uni, I seduced her with booze when she came back from her year abroad, now living in London

trojan698 · 15 Apr 2008 at 11:01

**** are important.

Murf · 15 Apr 2008 at 11:13

Kell_ee001 said:
That's not right

You should win 1 in every 200

I hated that rule.

Artemic · 15 Apr 2008 at 11:23

Im in a really boring relationship. Not happy with it really in some respects, but very happy in others. Not to bore people beyond all reason, we like a lot of the same things, and get on well most of the time until one of us goes out without the the other then all manner of arguements start. And of course she wont actually initiate any physical interaction. no Holding hands, cuddling etc, then when i do she always seems to make up an excuse of why she doesnt want to....... really odd.. but hey.

Karbon · 15 Apr 2008 at 12:17

it's sick and depraved. the best kind

PureAppleJuice · 15 Apr 2008 at 12:18

In a long term relationship at the moment, 4 years, eek!

Von Luck · 15 Apr 2008 at 12:33

theNude · 15 Apr 2008 at 12:47

De-facto relationship, 6 years, 2 bunnys

its all good.

Snakedoctor · 15 Apr 2008 at 12:51

I have a GF, she lives in her flat, I live in mine, we see each other at the weekends and have peace all week. Suits me sir.

trojan698 · 15 Apr 2008 at 12:52

Artemic said:
Im in a really boring relationship. Not happy with it really in some respects, but very happy in others. Not to bore people beyond all reason, we like a lot of the same things, and get on well most of the time until one of us goes out without the the other then all manner of arguements start. And of course she wont actually initiate any physical interaction. no Holding hands, cuddling etc, then when i do she always seems to make up an excuse of why she doesnt want to....... really odd.. but hey.

Sounds like there are some issues there dude..

yer_averagejoe · 15 Apr 2008 at 12:59

my girlfriend wont initiate the *really* physical action... maybe shes just shy. but its starting to annoy me. We're good in all other respects though

I'm happy.

KaHn · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:00

A good one, been about 2 yrs now and haven't argued once, expect that I dutch oven her now and again and I get punched but thats normal right?

KaHn

InvaderGIR · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:00

Been together for 18months, don't really argue, but then we aren't together a great deal due to me being at uni and her working 60 miles away. I live with course mates and she lives with her parents.

I think we are great together and love her loads.

InvG

[TW]Fox · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:03

Zefan said:
Me and the missus argue a hell of a lot. If we didn't I'd think there was something wrong.

That seems to be the excuse all the arguementative couples come out with. Personally I would take the sign you rarely agree on something as a sign that perhaps things are not that great

Muffin` · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:04

[TW]Fox;11502063 said:
That seems to be the excuse all the arguementative couples come out with. Personally I would take the sign you rarely agree on something as a sign that perhaps things are not that great

Or she's a control freak who has a distaste for anything that she can't control, and a bit of a psycho.

nydryl · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:07

Single after 5 years, feels very strange. I think a holiday is needed.

Zefan · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:13

[TW]Fox;11502063 said:
That seems to be the excuse all the arguementative couples come out with. Personally I would take the sign you rarely agree on something as a sign that perhaps things are not that great

I should have made myself more clear, I've argued in all my relationships - I'm almost certain it's the way my personality handles being close with someone. If we didn't argue the only conclusion I could draw is that she doesn't care, which I'm sure you'll admit isn't good!

gjrc · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:15

Zefan said:
I should have made myself more clear, I've argued in all my relationships - I'm almost certain it's the way my personality handles being close with someone. If we didn't argue the only conclusion I could draw is that she doesn't care, which I'm sure you'll admit isn't good!

i argued in all my relationships except the one where we both really cared about each other. then we never argued ever.

my brother and his wife dont argue. my sister and her husband dont argue. sure they may disagree about things but they never argue. personally i dont want to be in any relationship where there are arguments.

[TW]Fox · 15 Apr 2008 at 13:15

Zefan said:
I should have made myself more clear, I've argued in all my relationships - I'm almost certain it's the way my personality handles being close with someone.

So your personality is such that you think you are always correct/always get your own way even if that means arguing with someone you care about?

I personally find keeping arguing to the internet and learning give and take and respect for her feelings works well