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I had a few pregnancy scares with girlfriends over my years, its not fun :/

Never turned out positive, and the main reason we had scares were due to late periods induced by stress on her part (a-levels, driving test) but it all turned out ok.

Really, at 17, at least in my books, you want to be thinking about abortion, if she actually is pregnant, and then solid contraception (cant see if you have mentioned any but get her on the pill(altho Ive had bad experiences with the pill, massive mood change!!) or start using condoms, or both!)

Sure an abortion might be a bit traumatic but not half as traumatic as having an child so young.

I'm 27 and still wouldn't consider myself for parenthood, at 17 I wanted to party and sex up every girl that moved, not be stuck with a child.
 
taking 2 pills to cover missing one? i'm 99.9% certain it doesn't work like that.

You miss one you start taking them again regularly and you "wear protection" for the following week (or 2) while you're technically not protected by the pill any more.

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B@Th*nG said:
taking 2 pills to cover missing one? i'm 99.9% certain it doesn't work like that.

You miss one you start taking them again regularly and you "wear protection" for the following week (or 2) while you're technically not protected by the pill any more.

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No it doesn't, but you're also not immediately unprotected the moment you miss one. You would have to be bloody unlucky to get up the duff by missing a single pill. Like really, REALLY super manly sperm :p
 
Get her on a more idiot friendly pill. The yasmin one fits the bill of what she's told you. If you forget yasmin you take the missed pill as soon as you remember and take the next days one as normal. So you can miss it and take two the next day.

That advice isn't true for all pills though and i'd advise that you find out which one she's taking and read about it YOURSELF. People make mistakes so putting this much trust in her is a silly thing to do. Learn about how it works and if needs be sit down and read through the leaflets/website with her as well so you know that she knows the risks.
 
If its a mini pill and she misses one and doesn't take one until the next day(more than 12 hours without pill) and has sex she'll get pregnant. Jugging 2 the next day won't help, that only works for normal pill.
 
Don't let her make a stupid spur-of-the-moment decision. Make her actually give it some proper thought :).


That said, I remember a lass who was literally "Hi, btw I aint having an abortion. Ever. Just saying." and I was like "Fair enough. Thanks for the info and all... but I haven't even porked you yet!". Strange lass she was.

That said she's probably reading this plotting my death now!
 
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...and not in the locking sense! :eek: I'm surprised at how many lads on here seem to think that pulling out / firing off elsewhere prevents pregnancy. You do know that ejaculate often comes out of your pee-pee before and during sex too, right? :confused:

OP, get her to pee on a stick, stat. Anything else is meaningless dramatics. Find out for sure, then deal with it. As was said, both sets of parents are potential sources of help and information. Sure it might be nerve racking, but at the end of the day if you're man enough to get a girl pregnant you're surely man enough to chat about it to her 'rents??

Think hard, think long, and don't rush into anything you'll regret if it's not a false alarm. God speed young one. ;)
 
Actually it is reasonably effective...

On the other hand I wouldn't chance it myself, I value my freedom against those 1 in 5 odds... If they're on the pill then fine (as another form of "protection" but without it? No chance!

Also, OP why doesn't she look into an implant? She doesn't have to remember to take that...
 
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