I've also noticed that although tired after 4/5 hours of driving I don't have quite the same fatigue.
Yeah, I noticed this as well - driving previous cars, after a 4-5 hour drive I'd need 30+ mins just to wind down and have a break, but on the long trip last week I was nowhere near as tired.
Then they need to charge on the way and on the way back - it's simply a case of accepting you need to plan a bit more and not assume you can charge anywhere you want.
That's not ideal though - potentially adding an hour each way to the journey. When we had the Zoe we found we were planning days out around the car and where we could charge, rather than where we actually wanted to go, and it certainly got in the way of spontaneous plans - e.g. trips to the beach because it was a nice day etc.
With an ICE, you fill up before you go, and if that's not enough, can pretty safely assume there's going to be a petrol station either enroute, or within a mile or so of your destination, which will add maybe 10-15 mins to your total travel time.
With an EV it's not as simple as planning a route and deciding to stop at charger A on the way there and charger B on the way back. You always need a backup plan because if the charger is in use (likely if it's in a convenient location en-route) or broken (far too common), then you either need to wait (potentially for quite some time) or have a plan B.
The need for a plan B means your plan A charger should be at a point where you still have enough range to
get to the plan B if needed, so you're never using the full range of the car (e.g. you can't run down to 0 miles, because if your plan A is unavailable then you're ****, so you need to leave 20-30 miles to get to plan B (and C...etc.)).
Of course it's doable, but it absolutely does get in the way of day trips outside the range of your car.
Of course the infrastructure is getting better, and in a car with 250+ miles of real world range, most day trips will be within that range anyway (that's 4+ hours of driving, if you're going that far for a day trip, you're either mad, or getting paid for it
), however there are still EVs coming out with < 150 miles range, which means 100 miles each way (e.g. a trip to the coast for us) is going to need at least one charge on the way back.