When should I be a Dad?

Thanks a lot for the quick responses. Yeh of course I have told her but I have been saying it all for the last year and she is getting inpatient! She’s not pressuring me as such, but yeh she reckons it might take a year or so to get pregnant and doesn’t want to be an ‘old mum’. She says I can’t understand the natural urge! I do want one, just ****tin it!
 
MontyMike said:
Thanks a lot for the quick responses. Yeh of course I have told her but I have been saying it all for the last year and she is getting inpatient! She’s not pressuring me as such, but yeh she reckons it might take a year or so to get pregnant and doesn’t want to be an ‘old mum’. She says I can’t understand the natural urge! I do want one, just ****tin it!
Click to expand...

Everyone does **** it man, my bet is you'll be happy you did.
 
Going to be quite frank here but to be honest if you need to ask the internet when you should become a Dad or not that would suggest to me that don't is the answer at the present time.
 
from what your girl friend tells me never....... :P

just joking well theres is no real set time tbh if you both feel right about it then CONSIDER it talk to others like you parents etc.

but tbh they do limit what you can do so if you have plans like travel the world then tbh no :).

but as and when you do have them then i dont think you will ever regret it i never do with my two :).

good luck maty
 
MontyMike said:
Thanks a lot for the quick responses. Yeh of course I have told her but I have been saying it all for the last year and she is getting inpatient! She’s not pressuring me as such, but yeh she reckons it might take a year or so to get pregnant and doesn’t want to be an ‘old mum’. She says I can’t understand the natural urge! I do want one, just ****tin it!
Click to expand...

If you want one and it's only 'natural' fears that are getting in the way then I'd say your ready.
 
As a man, you're programmed to think a baby is the worst possible outcome from sex.
But I'd say if theres not much on, you're settled and comfortable, why not. Unless you're planning on never having kids.

I wouldn't want to wait til my 30's or 40's to have a kid, to me it seems strange, everyone in my family has had kids in their early to mid 20's. I know it's the modern day but thats just how my family has done it, I see it as a legacy to carry on the whole DNA thing. Get all the annoying bits, education and getting a decent job, a house etc. out the way first though.
 
Well she's definitely not anywhere near too old to have one yet. My Mrs is 38 and had my 1st child 6 months ago. Words can't describe the feeling of becoming a Dad.

Have you done everything you want to in life? Any more travelling to be done, as that'll be difficult with a littlun in tow.

The way I see it is, if you love your Mrs and are settled and happy then now would be a good time. ;)
 
Words can't describe the feeling of becoming a Dad.

Have you done everything you want to in life? Any more travelling to be done, as that'll be difficult with a littlun in tow.

The way I see it is, if you love your Mrs and are settled and happy then now would be a good time.
Click to expand...

Your 30 and worried about having a child?
My first son was born when I was 18, my 2nd son when I was 23. I was bricking it but ya know what, it's not actually that bad...Deciding on whether to have a kid or not is not something a forum can tell you, you have to speak with the missus mate, not us lot, you'll get aload of random answers and you'll be no wiser...
 
I'm suprised no one has said the common phrase when it involves sex lol :P

Like people have said mate. If you ain't ready for a kid yet, don't have one. Have a kid when you are up for it. Although, think about the mother :D I'm sure she don't want to be old to have her first kid with you?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom