10 voted for no alien life anywhere else in the UNIVERSE!!! Mad.
If the universe is infinite then there must be infinite intelligent civilisations, there will also be an identical copy of ourselves having this exact conversation on the same forum, actually an infinite amount of times as well.
Where's my loong lost twin!
On a more serious note, i think we need to distinguish between life and intelligent life, there's a huge difference between self replicating organisms and conscious apes that can create satellites and computers. It took 4 billion years for us to arrive at this point in time, where, we can come up with phrases like "i think, therefore i am" All the ingredients for us to flourish had to be just right as well, water, atmosphere, correct distance from the sun, a lot of people also don't realise how important the moon is to keeping us stable, it keeps the earth from moving off it's axis by quite a margin. And lets not forget the Chicxulub astroid, had that astroid not smashed into the earth 65 million years ago, we definitely wouldn't be here, pure chance. I think we might be more unique than we think, especially in our galaxy, we could be the only intelligent life in our galaxy, and let's be honest, our galaxy is the furthest we'll ever explore, it's like 100,000 light years across. I think our next closest galaxy is Andromeda, which is 2.2 million light years away. We'll never interact with another galaxy.
A good book to read is this, fascinating book.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Vital-Question-Why-life-way/dp/1781250367
Another thought with this is that if life were discovered on another planet, would it be announced? in some cultures it would create mass panic, religious groups would protest that it's God testing us, etc.
Were already talking about it though, Mars? Europa?