I kind of feel the same way OP. I played WoW in the past but I was never into raiding, and PvP becomes stale quite quickly. I have no intentions of going back to that game, despite the fact I think it's one of the best MMORPG's out there for its type.
I bought Diablo 3 and Guild Wars 2 thinking they would be my saviours, but unfortunately not. While both are good games, they both suffer from end game annoyances.
But then, I opened up my email, and was greeted with "You are invited to the Planetside 2 beta!" I've played around 6 hours or so and I am loving it. I've been waiting for this type of game for so long. BF3 is good, but it was never a replacement to BF2 and would never give me those epic moments again that BF2 did. I can't wait for the full release of Planetside 2 now!
I still need to pick up Borderlands 2 and Torchlight 2 though, but in no rush.