Why are YOU single?

Im single because I like arguing about and defending muslims on the internet.

But seriously, I have a date on Friday and have always tended to be popular with the ladies although at 22 I'd say I've not had a long term relationship.

It's just a choice, we all have doubts even those who are really good looking, you have to choose to talk to women, make them laugh, ask them out and go from there. As soon as you realise that "no" is not the end of the world the better, but it's a personal journey to build confidence and each person takes their own time.

Oh girls are the most self-conscious people in the world, the model types are usually the ones with the least confidence. As long as you're not dog rough you can go on a date with anyone if you make them feel special.

Good luck to you all, and if all else fails there is always copious amounts of drink.
 
Im single because i'm shy, thats it, im not shy in meetings where I am a god but stick me infront of a chick outside of work and its all over
 
naffa said:
I'm single because I'm 19 and split up with my girlfriend of three years about five months ago. Almost over her now, ALMOST!!1 :p
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You'd think so, wouldn't you? You ever run long-distance? You know, you hit the wall, then you get your second wind? Get ready for your second kick in the balls. you'll get your third around 2 months after your 21st.

I'm single because I split up with the girl I was dating for 2 years between the ages of 16 & 18. circumstances of my life at the time coupled with first love syndrome has rendered all other girls I've met over the last 5 years incomparable. I do alright, but I've only dated 2 girls since her, both very short relationships and both disasters. Now I rely on sex buddies, club dating never being my field.
 
I may very well be single in the morning!..just had a bit of a tiff with the wife...she was drunk and i am sober:D

It went something like this...she says "im gonna stay with my sister"...i need a break:rolleyes:...she then proceeds to shout at me in the back garden and call me fat and old:mad: and lots of other nice things....this has happend on a number of occasions in the past but at least she didnt start to smash stuff up this time...but she did launch her wedding ring into orbit.

In the morning she will be full of regret about it all but she said some things about my dad tonight that i cant forgive...he died in 1968 and i have been going through an emotional time at the moment about the fact that he died when i was six years old and he thirty six.

So in the morning i am not of a mind to stop her going...oh and she reminded me that my to stepsons are not mine:mad:.....and that folks is why i may be single from today:D
 
Not defending her mate, but do you know why she's lashing out? Drinking will make some people emotional when they've had a couple, but alcohol only brings things to the surface so it has to have been there to begin with.

She's obviously focusing her aggression on you as perhaps you're the easiest variable. Whether or not you're the actual cause, only you can tell.

What an absolute cow though for saying that about your father and kids. She really should know better - shame that a lot of women don't. I wonder if there's a circle in Hell for spiteful women...

Don't do anything brash in the morning mate, but I would (just from what I've read) highly suggest you try and get her to talk to someone (if not you).
 
Thanks Nix, i think i will let her do whatever she wants now..but if she leaves...and she has done before, i will not try to stop her, life's to short for this ****
 
Busa said:
Thanks Nix, i think i will let her do whatever she wants now..but if she leaves...and she has done before, i will not try to stop her, life's to short for this ****
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When i finished with my Girlfreind, i was so upset.

My dad told me to run toward the sun, when you get there, you will find happyness.

Im not sure what he ever ment?
 
Busa said:
Or a long weight..a bucket of steam...a left handed screwdriver?
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No No non of them...

Must be to do with finding the special perosn, then realising nothing lasts forever, so try your hardest to keep it together, because your going to die and this could mean you will never reach the sun, so don't die lonely.


Thats whay i have it based on...
 
Dj_Jestar said:
http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html
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The person that wrote that CLEARLY doesn't "get it". It's taken me until the age of 22 to actually understand things now, a late bloomer i guess. I'm not saying i'm good at it but i know what works what doesn't and why.

Blackhawk47 said:
Anyone got any good ideas how to ask a girl out that you haven't really seen and spoken to but really like without coming out looking like a bit wierd.

I am thinking of restaurant, Italian then maybe back to...

Well I am not going to kid myself, she is in a different league but any pointers are well, appreciated. ;) :o :(
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There are no leagues, only levels of self doubt.

You want to be confident, decisive and kind. "I'm going out for a quiet drink after work/school/college, you should join me." Confident, not asking her anything and letting her know YOU are in control.


I'm single at the minute "apparently", though the girl i really like is currently living with me. She seems fine with the fundamentals of a relationship but the classification of it seems to scare her off a bit and we keep breaking up after a few weeks of officially being GF/BF. So at the minute we're not talking about it and just carrying on like normal.
 
krisboats said:
She seems fine with the fundamentals of a relationship but the classification of it seems to scare her off a bit and we keep breaking up after a few weeks of officially being GF/BF. So at the minute we're not talking about it and just carrying on like normal.
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Ugh, I had one like that. Did my bloody head in she did.
 
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