Why are YOU single?

Chimerical said:
I always thought that if there's a group of girls in the street, I could get stabbed or something. Then I'd have a reason to talk to them, i.e. use it as an ice breaker 'cos then they'd be all sympathetic as I bled everywhere.
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Hello Chimerical, hope you have a good day.

What if you were in a bar and this pretty girl kept on glancing at you. The bartender then tells you that this girl was really asking about you and would like to have a drink with you. She's alone. Would you have the confidence to go up to her and have a drink with her?

If you think yes, then perhaps you are just afraid of the unknown. Approaching girls presents a lot of unknown outcomes that translate to some kind of fear to the extent that it prevents action in the first place.

My advice would be, to just say 'hello' with a smile, or 'hello girls' with a smile. Take every opportunity to do this to as many girls as possible. Forget all the macho chat up lines etc. Keep doing the above and soon you'll have confidence to talk more with a girl you really like. You'll soon be talking about the weather and perhaps even ****el [w-ank-el] rotary engines.

People who have progressed to discussing the merits of these engines eventually find enormous success because not only have they found a good looking filly, but one with a logical mind.

best wishes.
 
What is unknown is not forever. Smart money in blighty says that unless you are extremely lucky, you will never find that perfect partner. The one who tolerates you and vice versa because it is love, the one who won't rip you off with divorce settlements of the 'omfg is that for real' variety. There's a distinctively western culture woman who appears to bear grudges, possess the most deep running spite, where the messy divorce and marriage end was premeditated at the start.

You can talk about the engineering of the mind but you cannot teach the system in this country how to compromise, particularly in the way things have seemingly evolved. Whilst addressing a very good point Pancho, there are plenty of perfectly normal legitimate reasons for us blokes to be single in the UK and an entire volume of bad marriage examples to reinforce them. I'm not saying though that every marriage is a disaster waiting to happen (however true that may be), but that there are simply more reasons not to bother hooking up with any sincerity to your standard English born, raised and Ok magazine influenced girl/woman.
 
Fido McNasty, having reflected on this many times before, I understand exactly what you mean - especially with your wisely chosen words.. It's sad that our society has evolved to prioritise 'ideal love' over 'committed partnership'.
 
Cos I just ended a 9 year relationship where the next step was marriage, which I knew would have been a mistake. We gradually grew apart over the years but carried on, stupid really but sorted now!

Quite liking single life atm, can do what the hell I want, my Mum invites me round for BBQs every w'end and I can go on random dates/meet new people etc. Only trouble is most of my friends are in relationships so am lacking drinking buds. Strangely (or maybe not so much) the guy who comes out on lash with me most is married with 2 kids. He's like a kid in a sweet shop on Fri nights out lol.
 
Lets start an OCUK dating thread \o/

Although judging by the amount of males to females on here it would be more like the "Who's up for a gangbang?" thread of fail :(
 
LOL girls who are on a internet computer parts forums or a generally interested in computer are not my type!

DO NOT WANT!

But thats just my personal taste, nothing wrong with girl that are.
 
PanchoVilla said:
Not sure. Can she cook? just kidding, although I really think you shouldn't be dating if you're 12 years old. Kidding.

Doesn't matter what we think, you seem excited about it so you obviously like her. Hope you really get along well.
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I think she can cook ;)

I am going out tonight with her, Swimming, PICS AVAILABLE ON REQUEST LOL
 
ATI_Karl said:
LOL girls who are on a internet computer parts forums or a generally interested in computer are not my type!

DO NOT WANT!

But thats just my personal taste, nothing wrong with girl that are.
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Not all girls who like computers are monsters. Plenty on here that aren't. Most women hate computers so if you find a hottie that is into them then keep her!

If a girl was into motorbikes and the odd bit of gaming she would be ideal!
 
Totality said:
If a girl was into motorbikes and the odd bit of gaming she would be ideal!
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I dunno, I used to think the ideal girl would be one who loved playing games, was obsessed by cars and liked nothing more than a good Die Hard film.

I'm with somebody who fits none of this criteria yet it doesn't matter and actually its nice to have things to do by yourself.
 
[TW]Fox;14678419 said:
I'm with somebody who fits none of this criteria yet it doesn't matter and actually its nice to have things to do by yourself.
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True I suppose. My last gf hated computers but I enjoyed doing other things with her. Unfortunately she enjoyed doing other "people" instead of things! Haven't been with anyone since because I dont trust anyone. Knew her for 8 years :(
 
Am single as finished a 9 month long distance relationship a month ago where I got messed around. Now she's texting and phoning me saying she misses me after SHE told me never to talk to her again. Bunny boiler's oh how i hate you.
 
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