Why cant i get a girlfriend?

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Shep_Cobain

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Yo yo yo!

as the thread title says "Why cant i get a girlfriend?!?!?!?!?!?"

Im not going to be big headed or anything like that... but i dont understand why i cant get a girlfriend. Im not an ugly person... not fat... not boring, i find myself as the guy who likes to bring smiles to peoples faces. Im a caring person and would love to meet a nice girl. Ive not had a girlfriend for 3 years and im becoming bored now as i would like one. Im not into this whole online dating crap! I believe a relationship should be built up on a face to face value.

People say im far to picky with my girls but i dont think so... I go for looks and personality and if the girl isnt what im looking for i ditch them but in a nice way before i could end up hurting their feelings.

When i was 12 - 17 i found getting a girlfriend dead easy because i was with them day in and day out at school and college...

I admit ive been out with some stunners, but there was no frills to the relationship and they have only ever lasted a month maximum. Ive never had a long term relationship nor have i ever fallen in love with a girl.

Dont get me wrong i see a load of hot girls all the time and i do the whole Quagmire thing "Giggity Giggity Goo" and im not an un-confident person as i deal with the general public all day (estate agent). I have a nice car, live in a nice area etc. But all girls these days is go out to clubs, get absolutly wasted and then have sex with random blokes who are older than them.

If i go out... i talk to girls but they either have boyfriends or are just interested in getting wrecked.

These days girls just go for lads no matter how good looking or ugly they or what there personality is like they just go for them if they are always out in town(clubbing) or hang about with older lads who are "HARD" lol.

It seems you need to hang about with fake people to get a girlfriend. Everyone are sheeps these days and because of that my sex life is now just between me and my hand lol.

I just see loads of nice girls, they smile at me - i say hiya how you doing? and they say hi, fine thanks... but then if i ask for her number and she has a boyfriend ... then do i think **** it all the girls are two timing ****. I saw an absolute stunenr one night in a club and started talking to her. Realised i kind of new her through a friend of a friend etc. Got her number and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime. But all she could care about was sticking a certain substance up her nose and going out the following week and meeting me out.

She didnt want to go cinema, pub, meal or anything like that?

Im i to old fashioned for my age? I have mates who go round to different girls houses every week and get laid by different girls no strings attached, and i wouldnt say the lads are like good looking lads... some of my mates a real slime balls when it comes to girls...

IS it me or does everyone go through this? I know its petty... but i just find it very difficult to get a date or a girlfriend. I will talk to girls but like i said they either have boyfriends or arent interested lol.

Im not sending out a date offer here btw.... Im just wondering is there anything youve got to do these days to get a girlfriend? lol
 
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Dont look for a girlfriend. Its a waste of time. just go with the flow and it'll happen.
 
Rhys said:
Dont look for a girlfriend. Its a waste of time. just go with the flow and it'll happen.
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This is so true. I planned on a night out with the lads years ago, and my mate brought his house mate along and we clicked.

At Uni I planned on getting an early night, I didn't even leave the house and ended up sleeping with a neighbour that night (it's like terraced houses in my old uni college, 260 people in one court).

You'll find a girl when you least expect it.
 
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Well i actually read your thread and I guess im similar to you. You however are looking too hard and in the wrong places. You want to meet someone slightly more classy than a club **** - but thats where you go looking? Get some hobbies which will introduce you to like minded people, improve your social life/happiness and at the moment you totally forget about "looking" for a GF, you will find one
 
memphisto said:
your too picky and or ugly :p


also you seem to maybe and this is just a maybe be going to the worng places to look for a girl you want.
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i think im picky.... but i think thats normal because you go for what you want... i think your mental if you go for second best...

I dont believe for a second that im an ugly person.... (not trying to be bigheaded)
 
rick827 said:
Well i actually read your thread and I guess im similar to you. You however are looking too hard and in the wrong places. You want to meet someone slightly more classy than a club **** - but thats where you go looking? Get some hobbies which will introduce you to like minded people, improve your social life/happiness and at the moment you totally forget about "looking" for a GF, you will find one
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I dont have hobbies really... just see my mates and go out in our cars... nothing special. I dont want a club **** but every good looking girl on the planet goes clubbing mate.
 
Mr^B said:
Relax, I've found the problem.

Occupation:
Estate Agent

HTH.
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Whats wrong with being an estate agent ?

Ive been one for 4 years and havent had 1 girlfriend moan about my job.

Hmm, like said in a previous reply, look outside the box. You look in crappy nightclubs and your just gunna get the typical nightclub girl, thats obviously not what your looking for.

Look for girls in your area on Facebook. A long shot but it might help you out ?
 
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