Why the anger?

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Over the past few weeks, I have picked up that there is increasing non-directional anger across GD that is spilling into some of the other sub-sections as well.

It's particularly evident when discussing anybody famous, especially females (see the recent threads on Leona Lewis, Megan Fox or Sheryl Cole, for example). Any famous singer or actress is absolutely slammed for their lack of personality, looks or style. I find it just rather sad that people are so negative about people they will never meet or towards those that aren't invasive to everyday life. Just because people are in the public eye I don't see why people feel the need to be so aggressive in their attitude.

The next type of post or thread is the 'people that do activity X', whether it is using a throw away phrase too much, or people who whistle on the bus, people get far too angry about things that are, ultimately, pretty irrelevant. It just seems that if a mouse moves a pebble in the back garden, the anger brigade come out to say how all mice should be drowned in a vat of acid. It's just bizarre and the same goes towards comments at individuals that have less than perfect grammar or post in a way that isn't deemed acceptable on the forums. People don't need to be immediately insulting, patronising or condescending in any of these scenarios.

Then we have the commentary on 'the greedy and disgusting public, those scummy low lives who are the filth of society, dragging it down with their evil ways' that crops up in various discussions about society and life in general. Well, not really... the nature of the public in this way is, again, greatly exaggerated and perplexing. Not everybody reads the sun, and not everybody who reads the sun is a bona fide idiot either. Not everybody who watched big brother had the brain the size of a peanut, live and let live, why let things in popular culture and the media get to you so much?

Has anybody else noticed this either? I just don't see the need for such unnecessary hostility towards anything and everything and I feel that those that do act in this manner must be very odd or insecure. It's just spoiling the fun and making this place a big 'hate pit' in my opinion. Just chill out and be less angry, 'fuh Christ's sake :p

What do you think?

Oh, and I foresee the predictable hostility towards this post in the brain dead fashion of 'mock the OP regardless' that has blighted GD over the last year, but it would be nice to have some genuine replies as well.
 
It's going downhill, fast.

You have to remember that most people here are jealous, which explains their posts.

They can deney it all they like, but its the truth.
 
It's not necessarily anger, I've stopped visiting OCUK as often as it's now more or less an e-penis competition with so many of the regular posters trying to out do each other with daft comments in otherwise serious topics. OCUK is going to the dogs, people are more bothered about your signature picture fitting the guidelines than they are about actually discussing anything worthwhile.

Nitefly you're last sentence pretty much sums up OCUK GD and many of the other sections for me these days. Nail+head etc. Kudos.
 
We have a recession, two wars, a lack of faith in politicians, estate agents, binmen, bankers, celebrities, lots of people are depressed whilst being patronised by over-inflamatory news media and I personally feel down about the human race at the moment. I also watch a lot of Fox News which probably isn't healthy.

That's my take on it.
 
The most polite way would be to say that as the internet's become accessible to the masses, the idiots have been drawn to it.

I remember a few years ago GD here used to be really good. Thoughtful questions rather than "oh no I split up from my girlfriend after something went wrong on eBay and Royal Mail lost my post - it's ok - it's just a rant" :rolleyes: rubbish.
 
I blame the Muslims!

Yeh i blame them too...the no good for nothing bomb packing muslims...


Seriously though i reckon its the lack of bedroom action that some are getting for the increased anger/hostility in this forum...i just find it amusing tbqh.
 
I'd say the Community has been very vibrant recently & Yes there are a lot of in jokes but Anybody is Welcome to join in, Personally I think you have mis interpreted the Banter for hostility.
I've been here a fair few years & have thought recently that Oc is more Welcoming than ever.
 
I have to agree with the OP, lots of hate for people they haven't met or really offended them in any way. So you don't like x celeb, so ****ing what? Just move on
 
This is the end of GD!


Actually I can't say I've noticed anything different to how it was four years ago.

Seek there's tons of "stories" in GD now, relationship threads coming out of it's backside and useless one word, one emote posts from people blatantly trying to ram up their post count.

I'd be shocked if at least 3 people didn't quote my post and do a one word/one emote reply. Watch and learn! I call them interchavs.
 
Seek there's tons of "stories" in GD now, relationship threads coming out of it's backside and useless one word, one emote posts from people blatantly trying to ram up their post count.

I'd be shocked if at least 3 people didn't quote my post and do a one word/one emote reply. Watch and learn! I call them interchavs.

:rolleyes:
 
Seek there's tons of "stories" in GD now, relationship threads coming out of it's backside and useless one word, one emote posts from people blatantly trying to ram up their post count.

I'd be shocked if at least 3 people didn't quote my post and do a one word/one emote reply. Watch and learn! I call them interchavs.

This.
 
I'd be shocked if at least 3 people didn't quote my post and do a one word/one emote reply. Watch and learn! I call them interchavs.

A few of them would be doing so to take advantage of the free postage offered. It's not just this forum that's having to deal with that.
 
Seek there's tons of "stories" in GD now, relationship threads coming out of it's backside and useless one word, one emote posts from people blatantly trying to ram up their post count.

I'd be shocked if at least 3 people didn't quote my post and do a one word/one emote reply. Watch and learn! I call them interchavs.

Who u callin an interchav der mate? :rolleyes: :)
 
It's not necessarily anger, I've stopped visiting OCUK as often as it's now more or less an e-penis competition with so many of the regular posters trying to out do each other with daft comments in otherwise serious topics.

This frustrates me immensely as well and always has, but people need to know when to draw the line. So many threads go down this route and whilst sometimes it can be amusing when innocent (much like the fairly amusing MAN pun that is currently running in another thread), most of the time it's patronising comments or 'pick on the OP'-bullying.

The most polite way would be to say that as the internet's become accessible to the masses, the idiots have been drawn to it.

I remember a few years ago GD here used to be really good. Thoughtful questions rather than "oh no I split up from my girlfriend after something went wrong on eBay and Royal Mail lost my post - it's ok - it's just a rant" :rolleyes: rubbish.

I don't actually think there are hugely greater number of these sorts of threads, it's just the increasing number of weirdly angry replies that go with them. You can't have a single relationship thread without 100 replies of patronising comments or silliness, which I think is a sad state of affairs.
 
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