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For the rts? Have a serious look at Men at War series. The Vietnam game was slightly disappointing, but the original Men at War was awesome. For a fast paced rts with extra polish, get Men At War: Assault Strike. MAW:AS uses flag control points similar to Company of Heroes, but they are heavily defended and also at choke points. You can also micro manage your troops with their individual inventory system, so you can get a rifelman to rob that mg42 of dead troops or from wrecked, amoured vehicles.