Worst Date Ever.....Rant

jrodga2k5

jrodga2k5

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So last night I went out with this girl from work on a 2nd date which turned out to be a farcical affair that has lead me to vent my anger towards her from the moment I go home......anyways......

So it's a girl iv been seeing from work and we organised a date for last night to go out for a few drinks and what not and just take the night as it came. So she text me earlier asking if I wouldnt mind doing her a massive favour tonight

"My friend is heading out with some peeps from Uni for someones birthday so is it cool if she sits with us after work until her friends get there? I doubt she'll be with us too long. xxx"

I was like ok that sounds reasonable enough but then of course after agreeing to such things the big fear begins that her friend and her friends will indeed take over the night and the whole date will turn into nothing....

Those doubts were not so far fetched! So I arrived at the bar that she was with sitting with not just her friend but her friends friend, great I thought, could see where this was headed. More people arrive and it gets distinctly obvious that the date is turning into an absolute mess and not really a date at all now.

She put no effort into talking to me and continued to chat to her friends and text on the phone to other friends. I got on ok with some of the people that arrived but that was through my own intervention and introducing myself to people to try and get something out the night at least.

I was up to the bar at the same time with the girl in question and asked her the good old question, "What's actually going on here? I thought she was only meeting friends and then we were gonna be just ourselves tonight" She really was short with the answers though.

Dont actually know why I lasted it out because its just left a completely sour taste in my mouth and just the way she acted towards me just really ****** me off!

It was a total waste of time and money on my part and I regret putting in the effort. She is short with the explanations but she is clearly not over some guy and cant just say that. I just dont get women sometimes!

However the situation she put me into last night I felt was just completely unfair and in a way cruel but such is life.

Anyways she has tried to explain in text but I pretty much just went through her there as it's how I'm feeling, she has yet to reply and I doubt she will to that :p

*Update* haha!

So she got back to me and explained that one of the guys that had turned up last night she had a bit of a thing with recently and this was causing friction between her and one of her friends....also there. She felt awkward because of the fact he was there.

Reasonable excuse but still would have been easier to split off from the group surely? Ah whatever plenty more fish in the sea and all that!


Hope you had a good read!

Rant Over :D
 
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Please spell "tonight" and "night" properly.. it's really annoying :(

But tbh either she can't be that interested, or you have misinterpreted "going out for a drink" as a "date" :) You got stitched up :D
 
Alarm bells would have rung as soon as she mentioned the friend, she was there so she didn't have to talk to you. Sadly mate, she's not interested - she just didn't have the stones to tell you straight out. Typical wench, consider yourself better off without.
 
She's clearly not that in to you and created the situation to get out of the date.

Also night is not spelt nyte.
 
Hard luck mate, women who aren't clear about their intentions are very annoying. Many's the time i've wasted my money/time on similar girls.
 
I think you're over-reacting a little. Sure, it's annoying but you need to just calm down and take these things in your stride. She probably had some weird reasoning in her head about testing if you get on with her friends or was just plain making excuses to avoid rushing into things.

One thing is certain though, despite all the possible variables; if you continue to act short, it's going nowhere.
 
use as as experience my friend...in the future you if this kind of thing is gonna happen again then you will know:)
 
I must say the whole nyte thing kinda annoyed me.

Did you text her that ? "so we goin out 2ntye or wat" hehe

Anyways that aside. You should have started flirting with her friends imo
 
Sounds like she agreed to go out with you for a drink just for the sake of doing something but then got a better offer. Basically she cancelled your date, arranged a new night out, and then invited you along out of guilt/politeness. You were meant to decline.
 
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