Would you do the dirty if you could get away with it?

baldzone · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:13

He is seriously contemplating it. I'm hoping it is just beer talk.

Bony Maloney · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:13

GO FOR IT

eLbot · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:14

Short answer: NO!!!

Long answer: No, he won’t get away with it, you simply just –don’t- get away with it and its not worth the risk. The money and feelings he’s gambling with just aren’t worth it. The fact that you guys even know about the proposition makes it 100 times worse. I’d be willing to bet my left testicle that he’d be found out if he went ahead. It’d be difficult enough to hide it if only he knew but the fact you guys know…? Phht. NO NO NO!!!! That’s not even dealing with how much of an absolute immoral ass he’d be if he went along with it.

iCraig · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:14

baldzone said:
He is seriously contemplating it. I'm hoping it is just beer talk.

Then tell him to be a man and break up with his girlfriend first ffs.

baldzone · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:14

Noxis said:
A better question is - is wacking one off to pr0n cheating? Technically you are pleasuring yourself while thinking of another person (rather than your partner) in essence its not that different than poking someone you have no feelings for other than to satisfy your sexual urges...

Physical contact is a hell of a lot different to just watching some randoms on a screen.

My missus doesn't have a problem with pr0n but I wouldn't consider cheating on her.

Wryel · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:15

I'd say no, but I would also say TTIUWP!

baldzone · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:16

iCraig said:
Then tell him to be a man and break up with his girlfriend first ffs.

Been through all that

iCraig · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:20

baldzone said:
Been through all that

Well I'm sorry but he's a selfish **** then, I guess at least no kids are involved to get hurt.

fatiain · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:21

Noxis said:
A better question is - is wacking one off to pr0n cheating? Technically you are pleasuring yourself while thinking of another person (rather than your partner) in essence its not that different than poking someone you have no feelings for other than to satisfy your sexual urges...

What absolute twaddle.

Onanism has a part in a relationship. Other women or men don't.

Noxis · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:43

fatiain said:
What absolute twaddle.

Onanism has a part in a relationship. Other women or men don't.

You are missing the point - especially as women think entirely differently about such things. Intent and desire is a heavy factor since when what we are talking about here are emotions.

Haly · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:45

Noxis said:
You are missing the point - especially as women think entirely differently about such things. Intent and desire is a heavy factor since when what we are talking about here are emotions.

Personally I couldn't care less about if a man I was going out with looked at porn, cheating on me however.....that would be a fast trip to singledom for them.

Raymond Lin · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:46

You only live once. :eek:

/hides !

baldzone · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:47

You don't get emotionally involved with pr0n. There is a high chance of getting emotionally involved with a physical relationship, if not some nasty little diseases which you could then pass on to the one you suposedly love.

Noxis · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:47

Haly said:
Personally I couldn't care less about if a man I was going out with looked at porn, cheating on me however.....that would be a fast trip to singledom for them.

Fair enough

Your man finding a random porn star more attractive and more arrousing than yourself not a problem thats up to you

I am not trying to argue anything here I am just following a train of thought that is (assuming absolutely zero emotional connection) is shagging a random lady any different than wacking one off to pr0n but with better "props".

Haly · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:48

Noxis said:
Fair enough Your man finding a random porn star more attractive and more arrousing than yourself not a problem thats up to you

Trying to make it personal there?

That's not going to work I'm afraid

baldzone · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:51

Noxis said:
Fair enough Your man finding a random porn star more attractive and more arrousing than yourself not a problem thats up to you

Fact: your boyfriend / girlfriend loves you for who and what you are. Not purely on how attractive you are (although it does help).

Fact: There are thousands of people that your other half will find more attractive than you. Even if your Brad Pitt.

Fact: Loyalty is a key factor in any relationship. As is trust.

fatiain · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:54

Noxis said:
You are missing the point - especially as women think entirely differently about such things. Intent and desire is a heavy factor since when what we are talking about here are emotions.

Mrs fatiain doesn't mind me watching pr0n, she joins in sometines.

Pr0n is *fantasy*, what we get up to afterwards is reality.

Gaygle · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:54

There is no point, he can have his loving girlfriend and have the knowledge that he could have had a WELL fit 22 year old, but chose not to because he's got summit better. But if his g/f ever cheated on him.........BRING ON THE 22 YEAR OLD!

robmiller · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:55

Of course not, and I couldn't imagine anyone actually thinking it was OK.

Stellios · 2 Jun 2006 at 17:57

Id say no personally. Although whether he could get away with it or not is hit and miss. Ive got a mate thats been in a long term relationship with his lass for almost 5 years now, and the amount of lasses he has had behind her back is unreal.

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